I am a self employed business woman. I am a loving mother and friend of 5 children. That sends 90% of you away, lol. My children range in age from 3 yrs to 21. The three younger children live at home. I am not a drinker not even socially but I do smoke. So there goes another 5% of you , hehe. My love for children goes beyond my 5 as my business is also working with children ages 5 to 16. My last marraige ended after 7 years when I found out he used me for his green card. I am not looking for a man to have a sexual relationship. I am conservative and old fashioned. I am laid back in my life (you have to be with kids) and very down to earth. My usual attire is jeans and a t-shirt, no makeup. My other hangup besides that I smoke is I cant stand the smell of beer. Also, I do not watch television escept for the weather. My days are very busy into the early night (tend to children) and before you know it it is time for sleep. I rise at 4:00 in the morning and retire by 9:30. Weekends are spent doing household chores and errands with or with out children in tow. I dont go to clubs or bars. Times have gone where you meet a man through friends or at the supermarket. So here I am. The most important statement I can make is "Children are a gift from God to be cherished". If you do not agree with that statement please move on and best of luck in your search. I leave you in peace and harmony