I've been out here for a long time and from Chgo. I would have to meet someone with the same upbringing. Meaning having valves and doesn't mind working hard to get what you want out of life. Lazy and heavy drinkers don't bother. I haven't bothered dating for along time becuz I usually get the same ol' same ol'.....and that is BS. Someone that has Goals and Standards is important. Outgoing, smart, sexy, attractive, and has a great sense of humor. I am the cl clown, but can and will get my responsilbilites done too. I don't have any vices except for smoking cigaretttes. No drugs...pills....or heavy drinkers welcome. I just don't have room in my life for that! I'm looking into going bk to school and would love to get my life started with someone special. I haven't had a "boyfriend" for several yrs and it will take someone with the "right stuff and touch" to accept one.