He has to be able to go over the top to impress or thrill me...he has to be natural I want no performance.. Has to be capable to listen with his mind and understand with his heart. Are you still reading?? lol.. I need pion, fireworks and sparks. A place I like; somewhere where I can hear the birds sing when I open up my eyes in the morning. In a place where people are still people, and not just working machines that have lost everything that really matters in life.. And the saddest part is they do not even realize that they have lost it. Some might think that I am a big dreamer.. Perhaps I am. But what would we be without dreams? What really makes you happy and what makes you sad?. Family good and honest friends the ones one can call at 3 am and know one can count on them. An honest man that would be willing to share his body soul and mind with me only. As I am not willing to share him with another. He would get the same in return. Romance is about the sweep of emotions not all the little eddies and floating debris. Sometimes it takes work to make the environment hospitable for love I want him to be able to understand that...flowers once in a while and all the little things that come along with it.. A small note that I would find somewhere him telling me that he will miss me while I am at work...I want it all...still reading?? :-) Ideal partners fill the gaps in each other s lives. They love the same things and they are heading in the same direction. I'd just like to add....he has to be vigorous; I want to see the sparks in his eyes...and satisfaction that is inevitable.. I would hope that he would see the world through the flames of our mutual desire and everything that we encounter would be there for our pleasure.... A kind of relationship that would make everything worthwhile simply because it led us to there; to the place we always dreamed of where lovers find mutual satisfaction............ Would be nice if he could be a comedian at times, since laughter is the most seductive thing in the world... And a healthy physical relationship suggests that its foundations are still emotionally stable too.. It's the little things in life that can fascinate me.............and if you know how to hit a nail in the wall :-) that would be a big plus :-)