Family, honor, respect. Not-so-common values any more, but must-haves for me. I am strong, determined (yep, mule-headed at times), hard-working, honest, and committed to raising my children with love and positive values. I am not a woman who needs rescuing. However, I think it would be fun to have a companion to do things with. I would like to find a person who has similar standards concerning family and life as mine. We need to take our time to learn about each other and savor the journey -- have to walk before we run. Will it develop into something more? Time and gut instinct will tell. I relish being an active participant in life. I enjoy rappelling, white water rafting, motorcycle riding, camping, and other outdoor activities. Some goals on my to-do list include snowboarding, bungee jumping, kayaking ... yep, love the adrenaline rush, but I have to temper my choices so I am around for my children. They mean everything to me. IMHO, life is what we make it. We can have our days filled with gloom and sadness, or we can face each day with optimism and hope. I choose to make my life positive, exciting, fun, and full of adventure. I am searching to find someone who feels like I do. Our relationship may grow into something more and, if it does, then I look forward to forging ahead in life together sharing the good and the tough times. Working together as a team enriches us and our families and gives us the memories we'll cherish in the future. Who are you? For me, you are an intelligent, healthy, strong, mentally active man who holds the same values as me: family, honor, respect. You are a positive role model for your children and would be with mine. *Non-smoker* - not negotiable. You might have an occasional drink, but you’re no slave to the bottle. You communicate well and are secure enough to express your opinions without becoming defensive if we have differing views. You are domestically and financially responsible. Planned and spontaneous activities are both enjoyable for you. Think we might be a fit? Let me know. Good luck in your search and may your day be a positive one.