Are there any attractive, spontaneous, fun, and relatively mentally stable women out there or am I being too picky? I am looking for someone who likes to go out and have fun but am tired of the totally insane ones that cannot control themselves after a couple of drinks. I am tired of psychopaths though a little nutty is fun. I am tired of B**ches, but a pushover is boring. Cutting loose at a bar is fun but not every single night. On the other hand dating a shut-in has its drawbacks. I am looking for someone who loves life but wants to experience new things but headcase freaks need not nudge. If you can make me laugh, look good in a nice dress as well as a t-shirt and jeans, enjoy a fancy restaurant as well an a dive bar, do not take two hours to get ready to go out yet enjoys basic hygene and showering daily, turn me on mentally as well as physically, listen as well as speak, write as well as read,enjoy music as well as the arts, let me know. Is that too much to ask? :) I am fun, funny, intelligent, easy on the eyes. I have a good job, make good money, a decent ride, and a quality family. Did I mention how modest I am? Seriously though, I am confident but cannot tolerate people who think their **** does not stink or people that are not cardboard cutouts of perfection. I will add more info about myself and a pic soon, but wanted to see who is on this site first. Guess I am playing way too hard to get for now. Sorry. :)~ Work like you don't need the money; dance like no one is watching; sing like no one is listening; love like you've never been hurt; and live life every day as if it were your last.-----Old Irish Proverb