Why, with so many people on this planet, does it seem so difficult to find someone special? My goal for trying this, is to find someone out there who just wants to find a nice guy who enjoys spending time with them. I have no expectations, just hope that I can meet that one person who can simply make me smile, because I know I have so much to offer, beginning with a caring heart. Hope you're out there, starting to lose faith in this dating stuff...If you want a game player or one night stand, just move right on, but if you want an honest, trusting person and want to take a chance on being happy, send a message, you just never know what can happen! By the way my name is Derrick. What I'm looking for...A friend, one of the most important things for me in a relationship, is knowing the person I'm with is my best friend. I want to be with someone I can talk to and will listen, someone who can have a serious side as well as knowing when to just enjoy life and have fun. Life's too short to be miserable. I'm very trusting and honest and would hope for the same. Basically, I would simply love to find someone who I can share my time with and who makes me smile just hearing their voice. I'm just looking to take a chance on somebody special and I have hope that there is someone out there willing to take a chance on me and seeing how happy they can be.