I'm not looking for anything in particular. Meet for drinks? Meet for dinner? Have a fling? Have a love affair? Have a full blown, all out, committed romance? I get a kick out of people who are "Looking for their soulmate". . . talk about pressure, geeze! How do you actually meet people when there are so many conditions that must be satisfied? If it was up to me I'd meet you at an ice cream stand or playground with my kids. Of course that would never happen but it would be a nice, natural setting. To me the true measure of a person can be made by watching how they interact with the very young and the very old. Hey, how about meeting at a nursing home! The bottom line is that we all have enough pressure in our lives and we don't need it in our love lives. Whatever works. Me? Young, active, 47. 3 awesome boys 9,7,4 who keep me pretty busy between their school, sports, and extracurricular stuff. They're with me more than 50% so I'm sensitive to scheduling constraints. How about this: we meet some place safe for a drink or a bite, if we like each other we make a plan. If there's no spark then we move to Plan B, which is Teamwork: I'll find a guy for you and you find a girl for me. I'm kidding... sort of. The point is we never know what wonderful thing can come from spending a little time with a friend we've not yet met. Let me know your thoughts. Irie! PS, I know I should trash the pumpkin pic showing me in the grandpaw reading gles but it captures my goofy daddiness