Hey. Ok, re updating this profile business. Re-baiting my hook you could say. I work a lot. I don't have much time for a relationship, but i want one. I'd like to get married some day.... Legal papers are not my concern, just a solid commitment to someone I care for deeply. I like fun, I've dated around, I know what I like and what I dont. If you have commitment issues please just skip past me cause this girl has a big heart and the ability to create strong bonds, and i dont like those bonds broken because someone is wrapped up in there past. I want someone that wants to build something. Do i want a marriage proposal on our first meeting? Hell no, I'm not that nuts! nuts.... perhaps. I Do a lot of art. I have a cat, he is a kitten, my first. I also have 2 children that come over one day a week on the weekends and spend the night. My other son is adopted and lives with his family in California. I'm very physicaly active, al... i need to loose a few pounds as the last year has been a bit stressfull and i delt with that by eating super amazing deserts, a lot of sushi, a lot of comfort food, still, i'm sure nobody would consider me fat, but for me.... oi... i'm a lard , so... someone that would like to do a bit of physical activity (lets not get to kinky on this idea ... yet!) then, that would be helpful. I work evenings right now, since i am a chef... its just the way of the beast right? Its not a forever thing, but it is what it is right now. so my time is in the mornings and daytime... lunch dates, morning hikes, runs bikerides.... I'm looking for someone that is somewhat mature, i'm still a biiiiiig kid. but, there is a drama maturity level you have got to p. 49 is my cutoff for how old is to old. and thats kinda pushing it. Not going into the 50's yet. I love kids, so if you got them, the more the marrier. I'm great with them and want as many as want me. Also, money is... man not important but... lets be real. If i got to choose (uh... yeah this is the internet so i kinda do!) then, i'll put it out there. If your broke and cant support a woman (i make my own money too but i'm a bit old fashion) then please go find another girl. I have enough money problems of my own, and they arnt small. what can i say fellas, shes worth it! :)