Hi..looking for character. Really. That is what I am interested in. Not your looks, but your character. Not in to pretty boys. I am girlie enough for both of us, thank-you. I am full figured, overweight, yes, but I still get attention so I must look OK. Friends first, I am slow to warm up in all ways. I am devoted and true when in a committed relationship, however, I don't expect anything but friendship for now. Wild and fun sometimes, but quiet times are needed and appreciated as well. Working on my weight right now, so if you need a stick, I am not for you, and if you need a super fattie, and are insecure, I am not for you, either. Looking for a nice man who is tired of being alone but no alcoholics or habitual pot heads, please. Once in a while is OK, but all the time is counter to my lifestyle. I can be funny but I am shy at first. I hope you are having good luck on this site. So far, I have been contacted by scammers and men looking for a free ride, or men who drink heavily and lie about it. Have a good rest of the day.