I'm married but like any other person that has been married a decade plus, the pion is long gone. I am seeking an emotionally mature and discreet lover for casual encounters. I'm not looking to change your life or mine. I simply seek someone well read, funny, semi intellectual, casual and relaxed personality. I love giving and receiving sensual mage, occasional light restraint/spanking and more than anything else, I LOVE giving a good tongue lashing south of the border.