Disclaimer: I thank each and every one of you gentlemen who send a message. However, if you happen to send one and your profile is blank, then I will more than likely not respond. Blank profiles usually mean someone is not serious about this site, or doesn't care enough to allow potential matches to know even a little about them. Those are men I am not looking for. No hard feelings though. I wish you well in your endeavors. :-) Being a full figured/bbw doesn't define me. I'm ageless, playful, friendly, loyal, sensitive, patient, funny, nerdy, a geek sometimes(I'm a closet PC gamer!), & a great listener! I'm in search of friendships, dating & long-term relationships. I am someone that believes in true friendships and once you're on my friends list, I am loyal to you. I'm also someone that listens to others and if there's a way to help with problems or give advice, or just be a shoulder to cry on, I'm definitely that person. I try not to be judgmental of others, but I do speak the truth when asked. When I'm into someone, I try to put my all into it. I believe that if you aren't putting your best into something, what's the point? Race is not important to me. What is important is that the person I get to know is serious minded and mature enough to handle a friendship and or relationship, but knows how to relax and enjoy himself. He should be open, honest and kind. He must have a good head on his shoulders, intelligent with good old-fashioned common sense. I'd like someone that has a good sense of humor, likes to converse and doesn't always wait for me to take the initiative. Please contact me if anything that I've said has sparked an interest within you, if you are between the ages of 35-45, and aren't just in search of a 'good time.' Do you like voicing on Skype or texting on KIK? Perhaps we can get to know one another, have a chat or play a game on Steam if you're into that sort of thing!