hi! well lets just begin im tommy im self-employed (comp TIA A+ certified), steady work(yup), steady bills too (shocker) indapendant?(of course) = I dont clutch on to my mothers apron string$. No i do the responsibilitys thing (fun?) its bitter sweet.. we're adult now (sigh*) you know what time it is (i hope)I LOVE TO COOK i cook for my whole family drive from my home to give them warm meals im down to earth a free spirit if you will.. im crystal clear of my values/principles And i live by it.i have clarifyed values for myself (good boy!)i know precicely what i believe in. What i stand for and, even more, what i 'will not'stand for [lies?] no! not just 'no' but a definitive NO! (once your phoney..u dont know me) its un-repairable period. dont care how 'white' it was those fallacys follow you white lies just add up and add up nuff' to frost a whole wedding cake. i do not want a peice ...funny how the world indulges though? (right?) actually sad ...not particularly funny to me at all.. my principles as a man, are inviolable. Either it is a fixed value and i live every part of life consistent with it(i.e.= real 100% solid dude phuck your phoney $h!t grow up what are you 5?), or it is not one of your values You cannot have a value when it is convenient and put it aside when its not convenient. (those are fake people) (integrity)You cannot have a little bit of integrity: IT MUST BE ALL OR NOTHING DOWN TO EARTH kick back and i certainly enjoy my life im Loving it but i need long term relationship can i find it here? *stranger things have happend* -tommy <3