Because i am not used to write.Speeding up my presentation i am working to enjoy my life not the opposite so i like meet people(women) that when they are with someone or with friends like to have good time.At the bottom line if i want to see her or she want to see me the next day means that we spend good time together. I am not diplomatic in my talk most of the time i say what i am thinking. I believe that women is much smarter from mens so for me not pretenting is the best beheiver if at least dont make my date looking for the door after 5 minutes with me.