This is probably the strangest profile you will ever see but it is honest and from the heart. One day before I was to file for divorce, I found out I was pregnant again at 42! I have a 17 yr old and while I am thrilled to have been given this precious gift-it does not change my mind about leaving my less than 2 years husband (and my first marriage). I also know 2 people who met their spouses when they were with child. I prefer men who are clean cut, employed, driven, very witty-men who take care of their own, love their momma, respect themselves and others and have varied interests besides communing with the sofa. (tend to relate better to black men but I am open to anyone)I have always been independent, own my own home and raised my son alone. Through all this though I have never lost hope that God had someone out there for me that would treat me as well as I treat them and love me for who I am- a beautifully spirited, optimistic, information junky, festy, funny, smart, sweet, sexy, domestic goddess, creative, pionate, artist, extrovert and lover of life. On-his-way-out-spouse is verbally abusive alcoholic, negative and hateful. Tired of being sucked dry and looking to begin anew with this beautiul baby and someone to share it all with. Crazy, I know but it's true and I have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Thanks for reading and best wishes in your pursuit of happiness.