i am an independant woman. single working mum. i have i have been using the net for a lot of years, and i have made some very firm friendships. i have been single for a lot of years, opting for casual relationships and friends, because my kids always come first. now i think that its time that i look for a little more. i have very high standards. and thats not trying to be pretencious, its just that i hold myself up to very high standards, and i am looking for someone who can equal or better me. bringing to the table enough for us to be considered an equal partnership. oh and baggage is something that i have. and i have enough for two, so, and i know this may sound snobby, i dont want a guy with any.