I am a single mom after my life long soul mate was killed on his harley back in 2005. I haven't dated since, but I think I'm finally ready to begin again if the right man was to come along. A man who wouldn't mind the fact my heart still aches, but I'm ready to take it slow so I can begin to love again. I thoroughly enjoy being with my kids, even though my oldest daughter has just moved out to her own place, and my youngest is so cool that most people thoroughly enjoy having her around. I'm basically her only caregiver in life, so I'm not asking you to be her father, but I am looking for a man who doesn't mind having kids around and can treat them with respect especially since she's very well behaved. I am very family oriented, and wouldn't mind being the same way with your famiily and/or kids as well. I am a go out and get them type of person, I take lots of trips any where from New York City on my own, to driving to Florida with my child. I am extremely self supported and would want the same from a man. I own a home in New Castle while also going through a total renovation of my beach cottage at the beach. Therefore, I'm attracted to men who work hard, and yet can find time for fun as well. I don't drink nor do I frequent bars, but it doesn't bother me if anyone in my life wants to have a beer or two, but they can't be a drunk or any drugs at all. I consider my best feature as loveable and appreciative of people in my life and most things around me. I am too old to play games, and surely won't put up with them for more than a day! I am very caring and trustworthy, and feel the man for me should be the same way. Taking things slow is a good thing, if I meet the right man than time shouldn't be an issue.