I am a 57 year old, widowed man. I have been a professional lands Surveyor/Businessman for 28 years now. I have one son in an engineering school in Germany. I have been married to my job since I lost my wife eleven years ago. I kept working round the clock just trynna get my mind right and keep myself from losing my mind.So I haven't really had much of a social life these past eleven years. It's just been WORK, Sleep, Wake and then WORK again. But I am finally ready to settle down and find myself a serious relationship. I am a very calm, happy and caring person. I believe in giving back to society so I ran a number of orphanages and public libraries in West Africa. That has been quite a fulfillment for me because I have always felt like I owe it to the people in a less privileged position. And it gives me joy...These are about all the important things in my life and I am now looking for my wife to be.....