I am a 49 year old mom,and am rebuilding my life. I love my children, (they are grown) and am family oriented. I also love cats, and am a self proclaimed nerd. I love to read, garden, cook, and HATE the club scene and malls with equal pion. I am looking mainly for friendship, and if anything serious develops over time, I would welcome it. I am quiet, introspective, caring, warm, and open. I believe people are, overall, good, but I am still searching for that magical one I could grow old with. They must like the simple things in life, and prefer someone with history,(not baggage, there IS a difference!) maybe a bit rough around the edges. Not looking for someone who needs a sugarmama.