Just looking for an honest sincere human being....I am 40 years old and I love life. I live life as to the fullest as I can. I paint and love taking pictures. I love walking in the mountains and collecting rocks. (yes I know it sounds weird but I love it the same). I love the ocean. I do not believe in things that just happen or luck. We walk through life thinking poor pitiful me. It should not be that way. Life is too short for whinning, griping or worrying about tomorrow. You have to take each day as it comes. Live it like its your last. Love it like it will be gone tomorrow. Share all this with each other. Love your fellow man. I love to cook. Especially baking. Mrs. Paula Deen is my hero. And I love Boobby Flay's smack down. Love watching cake shows. Would love to be able to make one of them fancy cakes they make. I make a mean brownie and wonderful fruit crepes...A great chili too... I love cats. Have one living with my daughter right now. A black pregnant cat named Jazzy. She is a pee cat. I love going to the zoo and walk around. Black panthers are the ultimate cat. My fav. I love video games. Assasins Creed (can't wait for #2 to come out). GTA(3,4 and San Andreas) any racing one. Can beat your butts off playing and Need For Speed or Burnout or Midnight Club). Saints Row also. Burnout Paradise is just great. And I like golfing on video games. But not too much in real life. This is the kid inside of me. Gotta live with it.hehehe Sports is ok but overated. Like the Vols football. Like to know they won. Depends on my mood. Like soccer. Only because I played 3 years of it in high school. But I rarely watch. I haven't been on too many dates in my life. I believe being friends first is most important. Then you get to make a great friend then after that is just heaven if it turns out your their soulmate. I have flown once. It was funny considering I am afraid of height...hahaha... Been on a cruise once and will agian. In the middle of the ocean and nothing but Gods created power...Awesome to behold... Went to Jamaica and the Grand Cayman Islands. I would say I loved Jamaica. But it isn't for beautiful 18 year old daughters. But one day I will go back myself and check it out more. Go to the bob Marley museum and such. I would love that so much!!!! I am a pionate person. But I think there is more to relationships than sex. So if your out to try that angle with me it WILL not work. I am not a one night stand. Will never be. And I can tell by the way youu talk if your truely interested in me. I love to watch movies. Especialy at home. I do not believe in always trying to ditch my son so we can do our thang. He is my family. And to be with me means taking him every now and again. At first its different. You have to have that time. But when your a couple that child has to be part of alot of what you do. Its about half and half. I believe every couple has to have alone time. Just not all the time. I believe in God and do my best to live the way I should each day. I am not perfect, not physically or spiritually. But I at least strive for that spiritual perfection even though I will never reach it on this earth. I try to be kind and loving. I am a giver not a taker. But will not be used. (not ever again). I do have two children. A 19 year old daughter who's married and a 14 year old son. They are the lights of my life. If you can not accept them then don't try to get me. For I do my all for my children and I try to lead them in the right way to go in their lives. I do not want drama around me. Lord knows theres enough of it these days. Any more I just leave where the drama is. So, think about it first. You can be left standing too if its bad enough. I just want happy vibes...I am not the Queen B as it may sound. Just a country girl orginally from Georgia not looking to get my heart broken again...Sorry if it sounds a little grumpy. I promise you I am far from that. All I need is a chance. And please don't write, flirt, etc. and then not write back again. Don't write if thats what you do. It hurts less...I am a conservitive republican. I am pro life... I am a believer in creationlism...There is one and only one God...I believe in love and I believe you know when your in love. If you are shout it to the roof tops...If not don't lie...Better for everyone all around...Only jerks lie about their feelings and I promise you a real woman can tell the difference between what is real and what is fake. So save yourself the embarrment...It will hurt you more than me...I love with my whole heart and I do not take others feelings lightly. Too little time left on this earth to waste it like were 18 again... So, if you think your interested in me give me a shout...You may just not know what your missing...