I AM 44 AND HAVE BEEN ALONE FOR 13 YEARS DATED HERE AND THERE BUT STILL ALONE I DONT HAVE BAGGAGE TO CARRY AROUND. I HAVE HAD TWO BOYS AND TWO STEP SONS AND 9 GRANDBABYS. I WAS IN NURSEING FOR ABOUT 25 YEARS ALONG WITH OTHER THING I HAVE DONE. I HAVE MY OWN BUSS NOW AND GET VERY LITTLE TIME TO PLAY. I THINK GOD IS WHY I AM HERE AND STRONG IN HEART. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A FREE LOADER, SMOKER, ABUSER, OR A NEEDEY PERSON I NEED A MAN WHO CAN STAND ON OWN . BECAUSE I WANT TO TAKE TIME TO FALL IN LOVE I KNOW HAPPENS FASTER THAN WE KNOW. THERE IS SO MUCH TO SAY LOL