I just recently moved to the Tulsa Oklahoma area. I am just looking for friendship, anything more would happen in time. I am definitely old school. I enjoy good conversation, I like to cook and eat. I am not normal, and the sooner people stop expecting me to be normal the quicker we can get acquainted. I look for honesty and integrity and try to do the same. I keep seeing where women are saying they are looking for a true gentleman. But I am looking for the special lady who would appreciate it and not see it as a weakness. I was raised by a single mom who told me when I first started dating that a woman is the most precious worldly gift that a man will ever get. I want a best friend first. I just want to me that special person that will let me treat her like the most important person to me and not take it for granted or as a sign of weakness. I just had a 18 yr relationship end because I broke my back for the 2nd time. Pretty much got thrown out because I couldn't provide for us the same way as before. So if there is that special lady out there who wants a man to treat her like she is the world to him send me a message