Hey! my name is james. Almost everything i could tell you without you asking is already available. im the most laid back guy on the planet. but the one thing about me every girl should know, is that i treat my lady like she's the only thing that matters. But really, I'm getting a little tired of the run-around. I want to spend my time with someone who wants to spend theirs with me. I dont want to spend all of my time with them, but one or two days a week is about right. we all have responsibilities and things that need taken care of, so I understand if you can't spend it with me, but if all of your time is already spent, well, it'll be your loss. if you would like to know more about me, or if you think we could get together and go out sometime, just let me know your interested. But, if your a one-date type, and dont see us going anywhere past a month, realize I want a relationship, not just a date. Revision: Okay, so i've been on here and POF for about two years. I've found girls who are interested, and sure, many, many who are interesting to me, but you all need to understand, I'm no good at first contacts. If i like you, i'll nudge you. Also, if you like me, and send me a message, it'll be easier than me trying to get you to respond to me. Also, why do you girls send one or two messages, then just ignore me? what is it about me that you have second guesses or lose interest? I'm probably the nicest guy on the planet. does that mean i have to become an hole to get you to notice me? seems like those are the only guys who get the attention. I know who i am, and i know i treat people fantastic, so what do i gotta do to get you people to just...say hi!? I'm not gonna change who i am, so your gonna have to love me for me.