The easiest and most accurate thing to say here is," I am me." That doesn't give too much, does it? Here are some tidbits: I'm a father of two, I'm a cinephile, I'm an audiophile, I enjoy camping and hiking, I like playing games/sports (pool, darts, bowling, football, basketball, baseball/softball, soccer, poker, monopoly, clue, etc.), I miss the ocean, I love looking at the stars, I'm a trivia nut. What I'm looking for? Someone who appreciates a romantic heart. Someone who won't be threatened by my attachment to my kids, or the fact that they come first. Someone who is willing to let the evening go where it may. Someone who speaks the love language of touch. Basically, I'm looking for my other half and will be picky until I find her. I am always open to making new friends while I search. Even though this last part may make me seem like a jerk to many out there, I would rather seem like a jerk without having to actually be a jerk. If you don't want kids- DON'T BOTHER! If you are pushy religious, move along. If you can't make the effort to type out your message, don't waste your time... I won't waste mine attempting to read it. If you aren't looking/ready for a serious relationship... not this guy.