Sweet, laid back butch with a heart of gold, seeking a lesbian who knows herself and is not afraid of who she is. I am an engaging, rather flamboyant, customarily charming, chivalrous, and witty queer seeking an equally empowered, customarily vivacious, intelligent, perceptive self-assured gay woman with a wicked sense of humor. I believe in courtship, wooing, and sensuality. I sport a healthy passion for adventure and love to spend days exploring all the nooks and crannies. Love is about taking risks and trusting. It is a careful balancing act and requires courage, patience, and an open heart. If you are open to exploring the possibilities please be of stable mind and most importantly a kind person. I am a smoker and a friend of Mary Jane and these things are not likely to change about me. I love a full figured and curvy woman. I am looking for a woman with the “7 shuns”: occupation (I have a job, so must you), habitation (I have a place to live, so must you), transportation (I can get around town on my own, so must you), education (.I have enough schooling and training for my job, so must you), emotion (I am in touch with my feelings without bottling them up, and so must you), communication (I am able to talk about what is going on, and so must you), and reputation (people who know me can tell you how reliable, funny and chivalrous I am, what do people say about you?). I’m old enough to know I don’t want to waste my time on the wrong kinds of women. If you think we’d be a good fit, let me know.