I am a very happy, independent, positive and sensuous lady looking for much the same in my new friend/lover. I am not shy but I guess just old fashioned enough I usually do not make the first approach so if you like my profile please contact me and I will answer with honesty. I can be very impulsive with a devilment sense of humor at times; however I am at the stage of my life where I say "why not" instead of "how come". I have worked very hard all my life so am lucky enough to be financially independent so I don't need you...I want you. If a song could describe my life in the past it would be "I Did It My Way" and my life as it is today it would be "I Want To Know What Love Is" and for my new friend/lover it would be "Hero". Yes...as you can see I am an incurrable romantic. Touch my mind and you have my attention. Touch my heart and you have my love. Touch my soul and you have it all along with amazing pion. I have made mistakes in my life but it is easy to be perfect if you have done nothing. Needless to say I have been a very active and busy person all my life and am a survivor of many challenges. I am sorry for nothing and grateful for everything. I truly believe from every adversity I have gained something of greater value for my life. I don't have a long list of expectations for my new friend/lover. I do know he must be the same person inside as he appears outside and he must be kind and respectful to others. If you live for the evening news or you are a couch potatoe, you might want to just p me by. Of course, there needs to be that initial spark to carry the relationship forward and that spark may come from a look, a spoken word or maybe just a small gesture. If you are a player and intend to manipulate my personality or you just want to chat online for ever please p me by. I am a serious lady looking to date first and maybe just maybe a long term relationship and I am looking for a serious gentleman. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile and good luck to you. Always Looking Forward