hello! i am a 28 y/o, focused, intelligent black father looking for a single mother-type (you dont have to have kids, but i do and its a package deal) who knows who she is in life and is not afraid to show it. a little about me: i am a musician and student at fccj (culinary management A.S.) who dosent necesarily need somebody in the music scene, or the kitchen where i work. i belive i am a good listener and a good talker too (convo skills are a plus!!) after a hard day doing what it is we do, i just want to watch a movie and facinate my woman with my stories on life, or just sit and rub her feet as she tells me about hers. cooking dinner for my family is what i do best around the house. usually guys dont do this, but im not the greatest house maid and i recognize the 50/50 aspect to home life, but for a guy i do put in my effort. there is so much more, but that is enough about me for now. as for habits i am 420 friendly, and i will have the occasional drink with the boys, but thats all i do, and definitely not in front of my son. now that you know about me, here is what i want in a woman: just feel the same way about me as the day we met for the rest of our life together, whatever it is. if we are friends, im cool. if there is more, im cool too, just dont change when life challenges us. (as we all know, it will happen eventually right?) is that too much to ask? just a woman who respects me for who i am, nothing more nothing less, that i can feel the same way about. im tired of feeling like i have to put on a front to attract someone. if you are that lady, give this lonely soul some comfort.