creative has a very keen intellect! I'm sure he was playin!

yes, i am sure he was just kidding....

When living together...where is the goals? No long term commitment...no goals to achieve as a unit? What do we have to look forward to later in life? Living together gives us reason to be selfish. To only think of what we want and will keep for ourselves. No reason to fight for us. It begets mistrust. No reason to look for a future with that special someone. I mean what future is there really? Yours, mine, not ours. Whats mine is mine and whats yours is yours? Not a good thing.

I need that special closeness of knowing we are there for each other. Taking care of each other. Striving for goals that we both want to meet together. Sharing what we as a couple have worked hard to achieve as a couple. Knowing that WE did this. For our mutual benefit.

Living together doesn't give us that. It produces insecurity. In my opinion.

Kat

i agree totally