Topic: When you date someone new,
Peccy's photo
Thu 03/27/08 10:33 PM
is there a certain prior partner who you always end up comparing them to? If so, can you explain why?

itsmetina's photo
Thu 03/27/08 10:34 PM
no they need to foget them and focus on you

Totage's photo
Thu 03/27/08 10:34 PM

is there a certain prior partner who you always end up comparing them to? If so, can you explain why?


No

Engraven_Image's photo
Thu 03/27/08 10:35 PM

is there a certain prior partner who you always end up comparing them to? If so, can you explain why?
Nah, I keep my partner in crime outta it; I have a really bad record!glasses

no photo
Thu 03/27/08 10:35 PM
no i do not......i met a lady today off-line,i told her do not compare me to her ex,and she said ok......

maraskia74's photo
Thu 03/27/08 10:37 PM
i try not to my x's are x's for a reason. one was verbal then physically abusive, the other drank too much and had major medical problems.

besides i hate being compared to someone i might never meet
besides everyone is different flowerforyou :tongue: bigsmile

pennyg281's photo
Thu 03/27/08 10:38 PM


Nope, it's not fair to compare them, they are their own person.

Lucky_Charms's photo
Thu 03/27/08 10:38 PM
Sorry I'll be honest. I do was with the same woman for 20+ yrs. Hard not to thank you grumble

itsmetina's photo
Thu 03/27/08 10:39 PM
plus if i compare someone to my ex things arent looking good

Peccy's photo
Thu 03/27/08 10:41 PM
I know it's not fair, but hell life is not fair.....no one likes to including myself, but I have caught myself doing it before.

hottpinkilicious's photo
Thu 03/27/08 10:50 PM
This sounds really corny, but I compare every guy to my dad. So far, none have even come close.

brooke007's photo
Thu 03/27/08 11:10 PM
nope :smile:

belledimanche's photo
Thu 03/27/08 11:15 PM
I got married at 16 so..I knew nothing but him. Now when a guy is nice and respectful..I'm shocked because I've never had that before. When I compare though..it's easy to see why my ex is an ex. Does that make sense?ohwell

Cambolaya65's photo
Thu 03/27/08 11:18 PM
nope....they just have to be half mother Teresa and half WonderWoman drinker

funandfriendly1's photo
Thu 03/27/08 11:18 PM
Nope, but if I did compared toy ex they would be fantabulous!:tongue:

Tameka's photo
Thu 03/27/08 11:21 PM
I dont compare to past lovers. But i do compare personality traits to my friends.

no photo
Thu 03/27/08 11:24 PM
No but what I do is try to find any sort of similarities that I am overlooking...some common factor, so I quit making the same mistakes...noway

chevylover1965's photo
Thu 03/27/08 11:25 PM
nope ! huh

Single_Rob's photo
Thu 03/27/08 11:36 PM

This sounds really corny, but I compare every guy to my dad. So far, none have even come close.
thats cause the guys you date are too young. go twenty years older :wink:

gemini_71's photo
Thu 03/27/08 11:37 PM
lol