Topic: Here for awhile
chickayoshi's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:25 PM
I am back and just here for a while. I didn't think I would find myself typing to my friends here, but I just had something shock me and I don't know if it is true or just a way to get girls to stop talking to him.

I will make this as brief as possible. Met a guy here...had wonderful conversations with him...planned to meet him but didn't happen...conversations stopped (I figured he was busy with work and I was busy with school)...he has a MySpace page...he's one of my top friends and I am like wise on his...his relationship status was single...but tonight it says engaged! Did I miss something? I must have. He is usually forward with me, especially if we agreed we were all adults here. I'm confused. I am waiting for his reply to clear up what he meant. I am so tired of games...I just hope he wasn't playing me. If he was...I am through with talking to guys online. We can be friends, but that is it. I really hope he isn't seeing another girl. Hey, I would send my congrats to him. There is no hate in his happiness. I just wanted to be told straight up.

Okay, I got that out now. How's everyone tonight?

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:27 PM
drinker WHOOT WHOOTdrinker

FaithfulOne78's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:28 PM
flowerforyou hope you get the answers your lookin for!


doing pretty crappy here..seems to be the thing goin around tonight!

Etrain's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:28 PM
Sorry but it sounds like a player

hikerchick's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:29 PM
I was wondering what happened to you. You used to post a lot and the >poof< you were gone.

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:29 PM

flowerforyou hope you get the answers your lookin for!


doing pretty crappy here..seems to be the thing goin around tonight!


Me too. And I was going to stay up and do my papers...don't feel like it anymore. I guess I will go to bed and sleep it off.

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:30 PM

I was wondering what happened to you. You used to post a lot and the >poof< you were gone.


Yeah, I got off for a while to focus on school. The forums were too addicting to me. Ha ha! I was going to come back once my semester was over. Guess that didn't work.

hikerchick's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:32 PM


I was wondering what happened to you. You used to post a lot and the >poof< you were gone.


Yeah, I got off for a while to focus on school. The forums were too addicting to me. Ha ha! I was going to come back once my semester was over. Guess that didn't work.


you are smarter than I am - I am two weeks behind on my class because of this

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:33 PM



I was wondering what happened to you. You used to post a lot and the >poof< you were gone.


Yeah, I got off for a while to focus on school. The forums were too addicting to me. Ha ha! I was going to come back once my semester was over. Guess that didn't work.


you are smarter than I am - I am two weeks behind on my class because of this


No worries, I am still behind. But, I need to make it up in a hurry. I don't want to fail. No way! Ha ha!

crazy_lover's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:33 PM
yes sounds like a player...i done been hit by 2 of them ...thats how i found out one of my ex bf's was cheating was by his profile....hope thats not true with urs:smile:

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:37 PM

yes sounds like a player...i done been hit by 2 of them ...thats how i found out one of my ex bf's was cheating was by his profile....hope thats not true with urs:smile:


Thanks. I was a bit skeptical about him. But he was always mature, so I paid no mind to it. Like I said, I will wait until he let's me know himself. I don't want to jump to any conclusions. I don't want to be some crazy maniac trying to get answers. If he wants to tell me, he will tell me. I bet you he will be surprised to see me back on this site. He may think I am going to look for another man again. Not so, just wanted to talk to my JSH friends. happy

crazy_lover's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:41 PM
I wish u luckflowerforyou

forever_fifites's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:41 PM
Maybe he is planning to ask you and just hasn't gotten around to it yet. Keep your fingers crossed and look surprised.:wink:

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:45 PM

Maybe he is planning to ask you and just hasn't gotten around to it yet. Keep your fingers crossed and look surprised.:wink:


Ha ha! I'd like to see that happen! laugh I don't think that is likely. We haven't even met. Yes, there was a moment where we talked about what our lives would be like together. Never crossed my mind. But, I don't know. glasses

cnoteblack's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:45 PM
hey chick get you another man anyway hes engaged so whats stopping you? try till you find someone cool

Monier's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:48 PM
Take care of #1

You're great that you'd be happy for him if he was engaged.

It looks like you have your priorities straight.

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:49 PM

hey chick get you another man anyway hes engaged so whats stopping you? try till you find someone cool


Ha ha! Until I know for sure he is engaged to another girl...and he didn't put it on his profile as a joke...then yeah I will definitely move on. But I don't plan on finding anyone online. I'm just going to wait for that guy to just come to me. I may have already met him...maybe? laugh

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 03/27/08 09:51 PM

Take care of #1

You're great that you'd be happy for him if he was engaged.

It looks like you have your priorities straight.


Thanks. You are so right too. I am at the point where I am ready to move to the next step in my life. I just want to finish school first. happy