Imagine....

Being in love...
Being married for ten years...
2 children...
Happy family...
Everything seemed great...
Finally got the home of your dreams...
Finally got a job you enjoyed...
Worked hard... but family always came first...
Everything was great...
always made sure your significant other had all they wanted...
Flowers on special occasions...
Great lovemaking...
Always told them you loved them...
Always let them have a life outside of your family unit...
Always let them have friendships with whomever the wanted...
While you were the homebody with the family...
All your time was dedicated the your spouse and children...
Then one day things started to feel different...
You noticed you were always the first to say I Love You...
You noticed they were spending more time away from home...
You continue to trust...
Its all in my head you think...
Time passed and It kept eating at you...
But you had faith...
You had trust...
Its just a rut were in...
You started feeling a little depressed...
One day on a whim, you check the cell phone records...
355 texts in one month to the same person thats odd...
You confont...
They denie...
Something isnt right...
Theres an error in the bill they say...
You say you believe, but you dont...
You both bicker about it for over a week...
They admit they have been texting a coworker... Killing time at work...
Assure you there is nothing to it... But they where afraid you wouldnt understand...
You feel foolish...
You send flowers saying that your sorry...
You call coworker and tell them you were sorry for all the drama...
Something still doesnt seem right...
But You know your spouse would not lie to you for this long...
Or would they...
Time passes...
Things are a little better...
But one night...
while on the computer...
You see a picture of a butterfly in the recycle bin...
You know you didnt put It there...
You do a little digging...
You hack into your spouses Email account...
even tho you know its wrong...
And time stands still...
you see an email...
From the "friend" at work...
Do I open it???
No I cant...
But you do...
Your heart stops...
Then you get a knot in your throat...
Sweat beads on your brow...
Then your heart beats so loud your can hear your pulse in your ears...
Your stomach is filled with sickness...
Like someone kicked you in the gut...
You just have just read a note of romantic encounters that have been going on for months...
While you just sat there and trusted...
And in the end of the Email It says I LOVE YOU....
Now I say to You....

Imagine

sounds familar

Not here, same story just different details....happens all to frequently unfortunately!

Sorry!

awww so sorry,and I can't even imagine.Hope you can heal and move forward

I am sorry man. That must have been truly painful. I can't imagine, nor do I want to

Yeah been there. Trust issues for the rest of your life after that.

Gee, I wish I had a man who "let me" have a life outside of the family.

You can replace"let me" with "did not have issues with"

Imagine a tap dancing mime!

im sorry sweetie....

been there... pretty much even got the details right....

still it sux..

Sorry to hear that

imagine.. there is still lots more happy moments in ur life!!

darn humans..such animals......duh

Thanks IZ

babe,if the man does'nt cheat...its the women.

cant couples stay together anymore.........
"Grandpa" by The Judds

Just yanking your chain. You touched one of my many raw nerve endings.

only detail you missed from you to me was if you brought it up again after the first time, expect a black eye...


eventualy we all learn... love isnt for the meek.. and sometimes we love the meek...

That sucks

Johnboy, one day I'll share a story that I used to find so embarrassing. I hope your pain subsides. It will get better, in time. I can attest to that.

Happy Thoughts Sent Your Way


We all deserve someone who will treasure us, not devalue us.
One day a lady will return your love.