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Topic: Met a Girl
jhitchco Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 463	Thu 03/27/08 05:22 PM
Ok guys and gals I want an honest opinion. I met a girl and she seems like a good person but one thing is holding me back that I am a little worried about it and I need to know if you would at all be worried as well. She is still really good friends with every man she has ever dated and slept with, about 15 guys. And one for some reason I dont know it didnt work out between them but i think she still might have feelings about him. I'm not sure but theres a chance. Should i go for it or back off. It just worries me a little

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Thu 03/27/08 05:23 PM
Talk to her about it?

italio69 Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 2247	Thu 03/27/08 05:24 PM
Ok guys and gals I want an honest opinion. I met a girl and she seems like a good person but one thing is holding me back that I am a little worried about it and I need to know if you would at all be worried as well. She is still really good friends with every man she has ever dated and slept with, about 15 guys. And one for some reason I dont know it didnt work out between them but i think she still might have feelings about him. I'm not sure but theres a chance. Should i go for it or back off. It just worries me a little ill just wait for awhile to see the outcome dont move in to fast .for your sake of getting hurt

evilolive Joined Sun 05/27/07 Posts: 772	Thu 03/27/08 05:25 PM
you should of course go for it! unless of course you wont be able to stop thinking about the 'what if...' thats damn 'what if' ruins everything! shake it off and go for it!

cdanny47 Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2328	Thu 03/27/08 05:25 PM
I would just ask her and see what she said???? That is the best way to find out anything and if she is honest about it then you have a winner

craswench Joined Fri 11/30/07 Posts: 21	Thu 03/27/08 05:25 PM
trust your instincts. always!

RockBooker Joined Tue 02/26/08 Posts: 218	Thu 03/27/08 05:26 PM
Ok guys and gals I want an honest opinion. I met a girl and she seems like a good person but one thing is holding me back that I am a little worried about it and I need to know if you would at all be worried as well. She is still really good friends with every man she has ever dated and slept with, about 15 guys. And one for some reason I dont know it didnt work out between them but i think she still might have feelings about him. I'm not sure but theres a chance. Should i go for it or back off. It just worries me a little Chances are, she does have feelings for them. I dated my ex (who is now my best friend and primary source of income{a band I book})and we still always find a way back to eachother in that intimate way.

jhitchco Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 463	Thu 03/27/08 05:26 PM
Talk to her about it? I should have said this but i was in a relationship like this before and I talked about it and they said there was nothing to worry about but it turned out that there was people dont always tell the truth you know

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Thu 03/27/08 05:26 PM
Sounds like you might have some jelousey issues coming up. It really boils down to one thing... Can you handle a relationship with a lady who has strong ties to her past. If you can't handle that- you will not be able to change it in the future. So you might want to re-think this perticular relationship over- before caring on. Not good to start out with jelousey allready in the works... JMO

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Thu 03/27/08 05:27 PM
I'm real good friends with one of my ex's. Matter of fact I'm over his house quit a bit...but there's no romantic relationship between us. I agree you should talk to her.

jhitchco Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 463	Thu 03/27/08 05:29 PM
Sounds like you might have some jelousey issues coming up. It really boils down to one thing... Can you handle a relationship with a lady who has strong ties to her past. If you can't handle that- you will not be able to change it in the future. So you might want to re-think this perticular relationship over- before caring on. Not good to start out with jelousey allready in the works... JMO come on you have to admit it's a little strange I know girls will always like to stay friends but guys dont

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Thu 03/27/08 05:30 PM
Trust your gut bro'

sweetpea1970 Joined Sat 11/03/07 Posts: 171	Thu 03/27/08 05:34 PM
I'm real good friends with one of my ex's. Matter of fact I'm over his house quit a bit...but there's no romantic relationship between us. I agree you should talk to her. hi beauty im still friends with the ex and im getting married to a very wonderful man i met on jsh

celtic_kitten Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 9957	Thu 03/27/08 05:37 PM
Sounds like you might have some jelousey issues coming up. It really boils down to one thing... Can you handle a relationship with a lady who has strong ties to her past. If you can't handle that- you will not be able to change it in the future. So you might want to re-think this perticular relationship over- before caring on. Not good to start out with jelousey allready in the works... JMO come on you have to admit it's a little strange I know girls will always like to stay friends but guys dont i don't stay friends with my exes... but they typically screw me over or cheat on me thus not much to offer me in a friendship talking to her is the only way... otherwise you will just be making assumptions

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Thu 03/27/08 05:47 PM
I'm real good friends with one of my ex's. Matter of fact I'm over his house quit a bit...but there's no romantic relationship between us. I agree you should talk to her. hi beauty im still friends with the ex and im getting married to a very wonderful man i met on jsh hello....getting married? congrats!