Life has slowed down for me. I have been unemployed for a few monthes now and I am down to my last bit of money. I spend my nights just chillin or at parties. But I am still single. And that has to be what bugs me the most. I am meeting more women around town, really trying to put myself out there. But I still havnt had any hook-ups. So as I sit in my room, drinking warm beer, the next drink goes to all of you. To everyone who shares my luck of not having that person with you tonight. Only a few people in this world find true love, and even fewer acctually manage to hold onto it, so when you do find it, never let it go.

I agree, never let it go!

no ****, what a revelation

Munt are you PMSing? Here have one on me lol not literally wipe that smile off ur face!

Im with u man except my beer is cold

i choose to live alone...my ladies vist me........

no smiles here, i've been crying for hours.

here...here...smart fella

Why? I did that yesterday. Are you okay though?

let's just say...i know what the barrel of a gun tastes like and i don't want to talk about it.

Jeebus... I've been there before (well, not the gun barrel, but close enough) but once you hit that low... there's really nowhere to go but up. Hang in there. Do something nice for yourself.

Everyone needs to give themselves a treat once in a while.

OH please dude, spare this $hit, now....

Somehow... I don't think that's very helpful. Or very kind/curtious. Good job wrecking the supportive mood we were all trying to create. We're here for you when you decide to cope with your anger issues.

Im not in anyway any kind of an expert on this matter, are you?

because in a year and ahalf of being here and GOING through the NICE, loving and caring heart to a person who MANY have done this here,,,,THEY at least had a real profile...
Have YOU read HIS?

??? Who knows, for me it's been a weird night. If anyone has thought at one time of offing themselves, I don't want to contribute.

I am actually working on being an expert at this matter, yes. Working for a psych degree, and I've always been pretty good at mediating. Just because someone has been depressed in the past doesn't mean they can't be depressed now... you don't use up depression minutes. It's a serious problem for some people. And even if the "depression" is being used as an attention getting behavior, that generally means theres some other underlying problem. Everyone has problems, and what they are, how they manifest themselves, and what kind of help they need to get past them all vary by person.

Sometimes, when a person is trying attention getting behaviors, the best thing to do is give attention. Ignoring them, or telling them to "shut up" or whatever only makes people resort to more drastic measures. It's simple conditioning... react nicely when someone does something good, they're going to want to do it again, and gradually they'll replace the bad habits with the good.

Anyway... sorry for rambling. I get kind of worked up when it comes to emotional/psychological issues. I can't help but try and help people, or to talk and reason with them... it's in my nature.

I'm too sleep deprived to be much use to anyone so glad you are alert. I do have a heart, too.

AND ask any here about me and I have been and done all that have came, but most at least allow me to feel or see that THEY are real in first coming on here and real with who they are on and in their profile, THIS DUDES NOT.
Could be a 15 year old pulling all the strings to make you or all act on it?
have you ever spent a weekend trying to call the police in a town 2000 miles away to save a mans life who came on here and said he was going to off him self?
I did, we found him,,,well, the cops found him,,,he wasn't with gun
and wasn't chared with anything,,,just a game to HIM,
But we had three women crying and sick here, and me dropping life for two days to come to his rescue, a joke.

Now, hell, that was only one of my weekends involved with an attempt to end life.....
theres about another 50 hrs of my life given here to the SAME ENDING,,,,,but I TRIED because I trully did and do CARE,,,,
But THIS guys read B/S from his start to present,,,and
You can now play his game and I'll stop.
But hey live and learn at your own speed..

Sounds like you're suffering from "cry wolf" syndrome. Yikes. I understand your being upset... but I personally let one case get in the way of working on the next. I'd question why they felt the need to play such a "game." Probably something was very wrong for them that they did that.

I'll just keep soldiering on... I don't know... to each his own.