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Topic: WHY DO...
lurchs_sister Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 9433	Wed 03/26/08 08:43 AM
... men think that when a woman says something she means just the opposite and push us until we are angry but when the tables are turned they tell us that when they say something they really mean it when they don't?! Got any insight on this?

alright_guy_65 Joined Thu 09/13/07 Posts: 681	Wed 03/26/08 08:45 AM
well I think what you really mean to say is

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 03/26/08 08:45 AM
Are you asking why men and women are alike? Or why men say women are a certain way when they are themselves that way? I'm confused!

TwoTallOne Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 16854	Wed 03/26/08 08:46 AM
hang on.. let me figure this out ... sorry ... I guess some guys have experience with a double-talkin' women , so think "once bitten , twice shy " .. not sure really sorry

MyrtleBeachDude Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 4028	Wed 03/26/08 08:47 AM
... men think that when a woman says something she means just the opposite and push us until we are angry but when the tables are turned they tell us that when they say something they really mean it when they don't?! Got any insight on this? For Real?

Lycidas Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 59	Wed 03/26/08 08:48 AM
For Real? Hehe

lurchs_sister Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 9433	Wed 03/26/08 08:52 AM
Are you asking why men and women are alike? Or why men say women are a certain way when they are themselves that way? I'm confused! The second... Like when a woman says "I'm fine" and means it but he keeps pushing her thinking she is not being honest; but when we ask the same question and he says "I'm fine" and doesn't mean it but gets pissy when we take him at his word. It's infurating!

JMellish Joined Sat 08/04/07 Posts: 644	Wed 03/26/08 08:54 AM
...cause most of the time when a woman says shes fine, she isnt.

seaworthy1963 Joined Mon 08/14/06 Posts: 592	Wed 03/26/08 08:55 AM
... men think that when a woman says something she means just the opposite and push us until we are angry but when the tables are turned they tell us that when they say something they really mean it when they don't?! Got any insight on this? Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.

lurchs_sister Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 9433	Wed 03/26/08 08:56 AM
...cause most of the time when a woman says shes fine, she isnt. That is an aweful assumption! If I'm not fine I don't say I am... I may not want to talk about it but I don't say I'm fine.

JMellish Joined Sat 08/04/07 Posts: 644	Wed 03/26/08 09:03 AM
...cause most of the time when a woman says shes fine, she isnt. That is an aweful assumption! If I'm not fine I don't say I am... I may not want to talk about it but I don't say I'm fine. I was only joking champ...my bad.

lurchs_sister Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 9433	Wed 03/26/08 09:04 AM
...cause most of the time when a woman says shes fine, she isnt. That is an aweful assumption! If I'm not fine I don't say I am... I may not want to talk about it but I don't say I'm fine. I was only joking champ...my bad. Sorry didn't mean to snap! This topic really frustrates me!

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Wed 03/26/08 09:05 AM
Are you asking why men and women are alike? Or why men say women are a certain way when they are themselves that way? I'm confused! The second... Like when a woman says "I'm fine" and means it but he keeps pushing her thinking she is not being honest; but when we ask the same question and he says "I'm fine" and doesn't mean it but gets pissy when we take him at his word. It's infurating! OK,,,FIRST OFF,,,he shouldn't be getting Pissy? thats my take, if he gets pissy ya'll might have some issues if THAT happens often... GOOD LUCK

ColinMiller Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 378	Wed 03/26/08 09:08 AM
... men think that when a woman says something she means just the opposite and push us until we are angry but when the tables are turned they tell us that when they say something they really mean it when they don't?! Got any insight on this? Because some of us really care about what are women are feeling... and then again some of us are idiots

JMellish Joined Sat 08/04/07 Posts: 644	Wed 03/26/08 09:08 AM
...cause most of the time when a woman says shes fine, she isnt. That is an aweful assumption! If I'm not fine I don't say I am... I may not want to talk about it but I don't say I'm fine. I was only joking champ...my bad. Sorry didn't mean to snap! This topic really frustrates me! Its all gravy baby.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 03/26/08 09:14 AM
My opinion is that people do this all the time, both men and women. It's a communication issue and not a gender based one.

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Wed 03/26/08 09:20 AM
Are you asking why men and women are alike? Or why men say women are a certain way when they are themselves that way? I'm confused! The second... Like when a woman says "I'm fine" and means it but he keeps pushing her thinking she is not being honest; but when we ask the same question and he says "I'm fine" and doesn't mean it but gets pissy when we take him at his word. It's infurating! {{{{LS}}}} I am fine thanks

JMellish Joined Sat 08/04/07 Posts: 644	Wed 03/26/08 09:22 AM
Its a test. For either sex. If that question is asked...and the other doesnt proceed to keep asking whats wrong, it means they dont care. Lol...again, a joke. ...mostly

lurchs_sister Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 9433	Wed 03/26/08 11:26 AM
Are you asking why men and women are alike? Or why men say women are a certain way when they are themselves that way? I'm confused! The second... Like when a woman says "I'm fine" and means it but he keeps pushing her thinking she is not being honest; but when we ask the same question and he says "I'm fine" and doesn't mean it but gets pissy when we take him at his word. It's infurating! {{{{LS}}}} I am fine thanks (((((CAAM))))) you're lucky you're a friend!

lurchs_sister Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 9433	Wed 03/26/08 11:27 AM
Are you asking why men and women are alike? Or why men say women are a certain way when they are themselves that way? I'm confused! The second... Like when a woman says "I'm fine" and means it but he keeps pushing her thinking she is not being honest; but when we ask the same question and he says "I'm fine" and doesn't mean it but gets pissy when we take him at his word. It's infurating! OK,,,FIRST OFF,,,he shouldn't be getting Pissy? thats my take, if he gets pissy ya'll might have some issues if THAT happens often... GOOD LUCK Terry, this isn't a relationship question wehre I am concerned just a general issuse that I have with a male friend and it makes me crazy!