what the best way for a man to approach you to ask you out?

With a smile and something to make me laugh!
I love to laugh and joke around since I am very sarcastic myself. Hope this helps!

DeLeah

Just ask!

Don't come up with some lame ass line like "If I could rearrange the alphabet I would put U and I together. SOOOOO lame

Just ask.....nicely

im not really sure, but i can tell you what my ex hubby did, i met him while we were working together, and he knew where i would be during lunch, so he would make out with this girl i went to school with, he did this to try and make me jealous, it didnt work of course as i dont get jealous... but he finally had enough and ask me out on my birthday... and we were together for 2yrs on and off before we got married and we got married right after our son was born

Befriend me. Say something interesting and/or funny. Show some interest in me. Pay me a compliment. And never referring to any wishes of anything sexual.

yup Sometimes guys just try way too hard to come up with something to say

My boy was very shy and sweet, and we met through friends and spent a bunch of time together and I kicked his ass at video games, which he seemed to be impressed by. When we said goodbye I hugged him (cause I thought he was cute) and he gave me the sincerest, sweetest hug I've ever received and looked me straight in the eye when we parted. He asked for my AIM name (haha) and he massaged me a few days later with "Hey beautiful" and proceeded to tell me that he liked everything about me. It was so so cute :P