Your pretty good at this...as I did ignore and move on.

Well now,, Hmmmmmmmmmmmm that Kinda makes sense,,, Thanks a bunch sweetie,,,,

hey big glenn check this out i need advice bad
Body:
Ok, I really don't know how to write this email. You are the most wonderful person I have met in a really long long time. I knew when I met you that if this relationship doesn't work out, it's because of my issues and I am not meant to be in one. I want to be fair and honest with you so that's why I'm writing you now. To say things I have trouble verbalizing.

When I said I loved you, I truly meant it. And I feel like I need to be honest with you about some other things. I don't know why I have trouble with relationships. Sometimes I think I have been alone too long and I will never be able to let someone into my life again on a permanent basis. Sometimes I think I am having trust issues based on my past couple of years.

When I get involved with someone I care about, I feel bad right away because I know the odds are that I will end up hurting him. But I have been holding out hope that when I meet the right person, I will be able to do it. The problem is, I have met the right person, you, and I still can't do it. And I have no idea why or what is wrong with me.

In a lot of ways I feel like you don't even really know me and I feel like I barely know you. I think part of it is that I miss the freedom of being alone. My family adored you as I knew they would (what's not to love) and I can't believe I'm doing this. I'm so disappointed with myself.

There's more too. I go to see a therapist since my accident. That is where I went this morning and I didn't want to tell you. But she told me I should not be dating right now. That I need to work some things out before I can try to have a healthy relationship. She told me I need to break it off with you. That it is best for both of us.

I know you will probably hate me after you read this and I am SO sorry. I have some of your things and I need to give you the ring back too. I can put them in a bag on my front porch if you want to pick it up. Just let me know when.

I guess I don't really expect you to understand. I'm ridiculously complicated under the surface and I'm trying to work all that out but at this point, this is for the best.

The nicest thing you can do for me is to not try to talk me out of my decision because I won't change my mind and that will just make it all the harder.

Dave, please believe me when I say I'm sorry. I would never ever hurt you on purpose.

<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< Hands the Big Guy a strong drink ,,, Hmmmmmmmmmmmm waits in anticipation as to the outcome of this request...


Mom sending ((( DMACKD83 ))))) Some big ole hugs

thanks ma

Your so very welcome,,,

I hope i can get some more advice soon im kinda goin nuts here

I have a question! If my boyfriend is acting in such away he has never acted before should I be worried? I mean we have been together for 6 months now and not once have we ever been on a real date. And tonight we are going on one! He even text me yesterday three times and even called me at work. And well we have had many fights about communication. He also said he had a present for me. The only thing he has ever bought for me is the odd coffee at the shop or something. It is almost like he is guilty of something here. Should I be worried?

Wow Buddy, I feel for you.

If I say anything that offends or leans against your value system, Please forgive me.

First of all, I'm a strong believer in making one's own decisions. So the fact that this person is jumping at the word of a therapist is troubling. I believe a therapist is there to help, Not dictate.

That said, I also don't think that pushing the issue right away is a good thing. This person obviously has strong feelings in this matter and needs space. My advice is to give them that space for the time being. I know this is a hard road to take, But I believe that it would be best for them to reflect at the moment.

If it were me, I'd respect their request not to contact them, But I would write a heartfelt letter explaining your thoughts on the matter. Your feelings are just as viable as theirs.

If you're open to the idea, You might suggest that you believe that the love of someone is better therapy than anyone in an office can give them. If you decide to wait for them to iron out their issues, You might want to remind them that your life is valuable and that you shouldn't be expected to wait forever.

Hope I didn't stear you wrong. Remember, I'm just a regular guy, Not a licsensed anything (but driver)
Good luck.

Whisper,

Don't think the worst. Maybe Someone had a talk with him and he's trying to show you he cares. Maybe he's tired of the bickering and wants to move in a positive direction.

Reguardless of your politics, Ronald Reagan once said," Trust but verify."

I do know that if you are skeptical and you grill him about his intentions, No good will come of that.

Love ya babe,
G.

Whisper,

Don't think the worst. Maybe Someone had a talk with him and he's trying to show you he cares. Maybe he's tired of the bickering and wants to move in a positive direction.

Reguardless of your politics, Ronald Reagan once said," Trust but verify."

I do know that if you are skeptical and you grill him about his intentions, No good will come of that.

Love ya babe,
G.

hey thanks alot glenn i know what common sence dictates here so no im not offended in any way. but its good to hear other opinions on this cause it was out of the blue andive never had it happen before so thanks agian

How'd I do D.?

Two rounds for you My love,,, You once again have taken my breath away,,,, Yep,, You did good.....

Just remember bro., Slow and easy. Emotional respnses at times like these can be devastating. Tread softly.

Just remember bro., Slow and easy. Emotional respnses at times like these can be devastating. Tread softly.

That means alot coming from you.

Thanks (((((((Glenn))))) I know you are right. There is no point grilling him over it, cause if he really is trying to change for the better I do not want to scare him off. I kinda like it!




And (((((((((((((((((((Mom)))))))))))))) There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of you. I miss our conversations so much. Love you. You still mean the world to me. You will always be my mom.

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwww sweetie,, You live in my Heart,, I love you so very much......