Topic: F**k You!
moman65672's photo
Tue 03/25/08 09:50 AM

Who thinks it is okay to swear during a fight/argument? Does it matter if it's directed at the person or the words are thrown around in general?


NO.....not if there are any kids around

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Tue 03/25/08 09:50 AM

Who thinks it is okay to swear during a fight/argument? Does it matter if it's directed at the person or the words are thrown around in general?


If you have a valid point to make, you should be able to do it without resorting to that. Swearing only makes the other person mad and further hampers communication. If I can't say what I have to say without sinking to that level, then I need to go and rethink my position.


novaskies's photo
Tue 03/25/08 09:56 AM
perfectly sensible to sware
anytime if u are in an argument..
sometimes it cannot be helped..

so sware away:wink:

however refraign from name calling

franshade's photo
Tue 03/25/08 10:14 AM

Who thinks it is okay to swear during a fight/argument? Does it matter if it's directed at the person or the words are thrown around in general?


I use sh!t, F-ck as common adjectives when outside of my workplace, but dont direct those words at anyone, so if during a fight/argument I say no S, F no, it is just that an adjective, not a personal attack on anyone. I have met some really sensitive people who is bothered by the use of expletives, but it's a personal choice.

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/25/08 10:18 AM


Who thinks it is okay to swear during a fight/argument? Does it matter if it's directed at the person or the words are thrown around in general?


I use sh!t, F-ck as common adjectives when outside of my workplace, but dont direct those words at anyone, so if during a fight/argument I say no S, F no, it is just that an adjective, not a personal attack on anyone. I have met some really sensitive people who is bothered by the use of expletives, but it's a personal choice.


Thanks, Fran. Agreed. flowerforyou

s1owhand's photo
Tue 03/25/08 01:18 PM
it is not only ok - it is also FUN....you know...
F**K happens. nothing to really worry about...

bad_girl's photo
Tue 03/25/08 02:17 PM

laugh I never argue... I'm an angel


Yea me too

Jill298's photo
Tue 03/25/08 02:53 PM


laugh I never argue... I'm an angel


Yea me too
lol I knew it

Nickinolosers's photo
Tue 03/25/08 02:55 PM
I don't think it is alright - I do it sometimes though explode

Totage's photo
Tue 03/25/08 02:57 PM

Who thinks it is okay to swear during a fight/argument? Does it matter if it's directed at the person or the words are thrown around in general?


If that's how you express yourself ohwell

Jill298's photo
Tue 03/25/08 02:58 PM
I think it depends on who I'm arguing with... I never cuss and my kid or my parents lol my mama would beat me down with a broom if I talked to her that waylaugh laugh

jtip1977's photo
Tue 03/25/08 02:58 PM
fvck, sh!t, b!tch



Sorry, had to vent

italianman30's photo
Tue 03/25/08 02:59 PM
nah wont do it but ill talk pretty dirty during sex

Totage's photo
Tue 03/25/08 02:59 PM

fvck, sh!t, b!tch



Sorry, had to vent


Just don't swear in front of turtles. laugh

jtip1977's photo
Tue 03/25/08 03:00 PM


fvck, sh!t, b!tch



Sorry, had to vent


Just don't swear in front of turtles. laugh


I never would

LADYCAT's photo
Tue 03/25/08 03:24 PM

I can't stand cussing to me it shows lack of self control and lack of the ability to think of a better word.....as far as making a point or calling names it just shows immaturity!


I so totally agree. Swearing during an argument may make you feel better, but in the long run, will only drive the wedge in further and sometimes to the point of no return.

There is nothing wrong with disagreeing. Just be mature enough to be able not to point fingers; tell the other person how the situation (whatever you're arguing about) made you feel. Don't accuse, don't use foul language; it gets you nowhere but down.

Jess642's photo
Tue 03/25/08 03:30 PM
F*ck off!!!...can mean NO WAY...you got to be kidding me, as well as the obvious go away one.

F*ck you...can be an expression of frustration...or exactly what it means.

For F*ck's Sake... also frustration...


I swear all the time, good , bad, and inbetween... when happy, sad, or angry...

doesn't make me less...doesn't make me more...just makes me, me..

I think if people spent less time with their judgemental thumb up their arse, and looked at the context of the conversation... and the essence of what is being communicated, there'd be less bent out of shape people in the world.

iamgeorgiagirl's photo
Tue 03/25/08 03:42 PM

nah wont do it but ill talk pretty dirty during sex


bigsmile

creativesoul's photo
Tue 03/25/08 03:42 PM
Edited by creativesoul on Tue 03/25/08 03:44 PM
I have been in relationships that have had this, and ones without...

Personally, I believe if one knows the person who is cussing, then you can bet that you know what they mean...

It is a personal thing, with a personal measure...

I like it better without, personally...laugh

One woman, whom I loved very deeply had a foul mouth, which was a little offensive to me, at first... but I grew accustomed to it, eventually...

I try to get my point across without cussing, just out of respect for the person with whom I am having an issue with, but I fail at times, like most I would guess...

flowerforyou

OneOfAKind4U's photo
Tue 03/25/08 04:14 PM
----- likes f-word it works 4 me winkinglaugh