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Topic: How many of you are ready
itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 03/25/08 03:55 AM
but love is so worth the risk..........

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Tue 03/25/08 03:55 AM


OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Tue 03/25/08 03:55 AM


itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 03/25/08 03:57 AM
agreed perfection is a myth, compromise is the key! compromise? it loses its meaning and becomes unconditional love . . . true but compromise is where it starts. can't suddenly have unconditional love without a catalyst first. by the time it is starting . . it is beyond compromise you are not seeing it that way . .. not if she is the one, now if you are feeling like it is a compromise . . . reflect a little about whether or not that is where you wantto be this is true by the time "love" is starting yes, but you don't walk into unconditional love from the start. I am talking about compromise before the feelings of love even enter the equation.....lol Or maybe that's why I'm divorced ....lol my point is that if it is the right one . .. you don't walk into it, it just is . . . . naturally there . . . unconditional and you are not thinking about the label for it ... it is just what it is and the way it should be we need to stop thinking that we are making things happen, and just let them .. . let them happen consciously we do it without knowing all the time. love it not thought about .. . it is felt

Danette_Giavanna Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 1273	Tue 03/25/08 04:00 AM Edited by Danette_Giavanna on Tue 03/25/08 04:01 AM
I'm not, I'm not even going to be home for half this year so for right now it's just friends till I get settled which will not be for a long time, seeing that I just signed an active duty Army contract from Guard...

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Tue 03/25/08 04:02 AM
perfection is a myth, compromise is the key! compromise? it loses its meaning and becomes unconditional love . . . true but compromise is where it starts. can't suddenly have unconditional love without a catalyst first. by the time it is starting . . it is beyond compromise you are not seeing it that way . .. not if she is the one, now if you are feeling like it is a compromise . . . reflect a little about whether or not that is where you wantto be this is true by the time "love" is starting yes, but you don't walk into unconditional love from the start. I am talking about compromise before the feelings of love even enter the equation.....lol Or maybe that's why I'm divorced ....lol my point is that if it is the right one . .. you don't walk into it, it just is . . . . naturally there . . . unconditional and you are not thinking about the label for it ... it is just what it is and the way it should be we need to stop thinking that we are making things happen, and just let them .. . let them happen consciously we do it without knowing all the time. love it not thought about .. . it is felt I'll agree totally with this chacha

chachacha Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 409	Tue 03/25/08 04:04 AM
perfection is a myth, compromise is the key! compromise? it loses its meaning and becomes unconditional love . . . true but compromise is where it starts. can't suddenly have unconditional love without a catalyst first. by the time it is starting . . it is beyond compromise you are not seeing it that way . .. not if she is the one, now if you are feeling like it is a compromise . . . reflect a little about whether or not that is where you wantto be this is true by the time "love" is starting yes, but you don't walk into unconditional love from the start. I am talking about compromise before the feelings of love even enter the equation.....lol Or maybe that's why I'm divorced ....lol my point is that if it is the right one . .. you don't walk into it, it just is . . . . naturally there . . . unconditional and you are not thinking about the label for it ... it is just what it is and the way it should be we need to stop thinking that we are making things happen, and just let them .. . let them happen consciously we do it without knowing all the time. love it not thought about .. . it is felt I'll agree totally with this chacha

penny52 Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 484	Tue 03/25/08 04:05 AM
I certainly am....want that last love of my life!

chachacha Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 409	Tue 03/25/08 04:05 AM
perfection is a myth, compromise is the key! compromise? it loses its meaning and becomes unconditional love . . . true but compromise is where it starts. can't suddenly have unconditional love without a catalyst first. by the time it is starting . . it is beyond compromise you are not seeing it that way . .. not if she is the one, now if you are feeling like it is a compromise . . . reflect a little about whether or not that is where you wantto be this is true by the time "love" is starting yes, but you don't walk into unconditional love from the start. I am talking about compromise before the feelings of love even enter the equation.....lol Or maybe that's why I'm divorced ....lol my point is that if it is the right one . .. you don't walk into it, it just is . . . . naturally there . . . unconditional and you are not thinking about the label for it ... it is just what it is and the way it should be we need to stop thinking that we are making things happen, and just let them .. . let them happen consciously we do it without knowing all the time. love it not thought about .. . it is felt I'll agree totally with this chacha WOW smiling (not so much as to make the sun jealous though)

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Tue 03/25/08 04:09 AM
perfection is a myth, compromise is the key! compromise? it loses its meaning and becomes unconditional love . . . true but compromise is where it starts. can't suddenly have unconditional love without a catalyst first. by the time it is starting . . it is beyond compromise you are not seeing it that way . .. not if she is the one, now if you are feeling like it is a compromise . . . reflect a little about whether or not that is where you wantto be this is true by the time "love" is starting yes, but you don't walk into unconditional love from the start. I am talking about compromise before the feelings of love even enter the equation.....lol Or maybe that's why I'm divorced ....lol my point is that if it is the right one . .. you don't walk into it, it just is . . . . naturally there . . . unconditional and you are not thinking about the label for it ... it is just what it is and the way it should be we need to stop thinking that we are making things happen, and just let them .. . let them happen consciously we do it without knowing all the time. love it not thought about .. . it is felt I'll agree totally with this chacha WOW smiling (not so much as to make the sun jealous though) good one! You're attentive I see!

chachacha Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 409	Tue 03/25/08 04:12 AM
perfection is a myth, compromise is the key! compromise? it loses its meaning and becomes unconditional love . . . true but compromise is where it starts. can't suddenly have unconditional love without a catalyst first. by the time it is starting . . it is beyond compromise you are not seeing it that way . .. not if she is the one, now if you are feeling like it is a compromise . . . reflect a little about whether or not that is where you wantto be this is true by the time "love" is starting yes, but you don't walk into unconditional love from the start. I am talking about compromise before the feelings of love even enter the equation.....lol Or maybe that's why I'm divorced ....lol my point is that if it is the right one . .. you don't walk into it, it just is . . . . naturally there . . . unconditional and you are not thinking about the label for it ... it is just what it is and the way it should be we need to stop thinking that we are making things happen, and just let them .. . let them happen consciously we do it without knowing all the time. love it not thought about .. . it is felt I'll agree totally with this chacha WOW smiling (not so much as to make the sun jealous though) good one! You're attentive I see! my job as a woman . . . i love it and embrace it

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Tue 03/25/08 04:23 AM
Details, Details, Details,.........luv it!

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Tue 03/25/08 04:49 AM
I am

lulu24 Joined Sun 02/11/07 Posts: 6033	Tue 03/25/08 04:50 AM
not now, probably not ever. it's not that i'm not "ready" so much, than that i just don't have time in my life for another person.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Tue 03/25/08 04:52 AM
not now, probably not ever. it's not that i'm not "ready" so much, than that i just don't have time in my life for another person. you are someone that can see that. I've dated guys without time but think they can work it in. I'll leave out the pencil me in joke though

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Tue 03/25/08 04:56 AM
i'm already committed.....well i'll be committed to a mental facility next year i'm betting

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Tue 03/25/08 05:21 AM
i'm already committed.....well i'll be committed to a mental facility next year i'm betting they haven't found you yet Jt?

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Tue 03/25/08 05:36 AM
i'm already committed.....well i'll be committed to a mental facility next year i'm betting they haven't found you yet Jt? nope,i'm hiding in the basement with all my imaginary friends

shutterbug Joined Sat 06/16/07 Posts: 34376	Tue 03/25/08 05:36 AM
I am more than ready...as soon as Mr. Right makes himself known to me. Where is he damnit!?

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Tue 03/25/08 05:43 AM
I am more than ready...as soon as Mr. Right makes himself known to me. Where is he damnit!? haven't seen hide nor hair of him, maybe he's in Jt's basement