I look for honesty, open mindedness,understanding, un-conditional love.
I want to find a woman that will love me and all my quirks that meke me
an individual. I know there has to be some sort of attraction between us
but the bond of feelings thoughts and emothion is far more important
then the physical appearance of a person. It shold go without saying
though if you find a person that may be perfect for you in all ways but
the sight of them is unbearably gross you must walk away. Not to say an
aceptionally ugly woman could not fill your wildest dreams just that you
have to be able to get over it or walk away.

the most important thing to look for, do you have any of the same
intrests, for example taking a long walk to nowhere just enjoying the
view, could you just spend an evening togeather with a movie and some
popcorn, pack a picnic lunch and enjoy some quiet time in natural
surroundings like a secluded stream. here is where it gets good how
about skinny dipping in that same stream. LMAO

There, must be heat, straight away.

there has to be chemistry.

Thanks all!
One guy told me, what he looks for is if there is some kind of
bonding with her. If she is too open at first, then that makes him feel
uncomfortable, he told me just to be myself.
MEN...does it make you want to run, when a woman is straight forward????

I like it when she lets me know.Like to hear it ya but showing me is
best.

Well, what is she being straight away for....!

I think being honest, being who you are, and if it isn't right, then it
isn't...no need to push it.

I can't really speak for other men, I don't know what they "really" want
from women. But, speaking for myself, I look for non-judgementalism --
an openmindedness that allows her to see me without being compared to
another, or to some standard of manhood that gauges how 'useful' I could
be for her puposes.In other words, I look for signs that there could
develope a real emotional involvement where I feel I can reach her. And
when I hold her, she's not distant. Someone who can make a passionate
commitment.

Just be yourself..

This is a interesting thread. Good question, good answers. The last answer of 'just be yourself' and relax is my own advice- for me

Yep, just be honest and you'll be fine.

On a personal note, if we ever meet I'm also partial to cheesecake, wins me over every time

I am making cheesecake right now!

A nice smile. It shows you are a happy person and also shows you are happy meeting him.

wow....i had actually forgot about some of the people that had posted in this.brings back memories

Two years...either she found someone or gave up, either way she isn't here so that renders your advice useless. Stop digging up older than dirt threads.

Somehow I feel hypnotized... cheesecake....

Is that what the kids are calling it these days.......

I was JUST thinking the same thing man.
WOw,,,SOME OF MY BEST OLD BROS AND SISTERS ON THIS THREAD...
NOW ALL GONE AWAY,,,its sad really.... TO THE GOOD OL'DAYS ON JUST SAY HI!!!!!!!!