I been dating a nice girl who I thought had alot of good qualities in what I wanted. but as the weeks go by I see less and less of her and we talk less and less.

now she has 2 kids so i understand the mix of kids and work and times too do things. But She is divorced with every other weekend off from the kids and certain set nights off a week.

Now In the begining it was like 2 days a week. then it went to one And now She seems to busy. Now mind u She still calls And texts me . But I just don't know what too do. Its only been a month since we started to date.


THis is not what I expected I can Handle a min of two days a week.



Her replies are u will get sick of me if u saw me all the time. But she puts a smile on my face whenever I'm around her. I have'nt found a woman who did that to me in yrs. my ex wife never could do that for me.



So should I just forget this And look for another fish. Or continue to be frustrated.

sounds like you're a booty call

You are talking to the wrong people about this. Talk to her.

it could be since she has children that she is pulling back to see how serious you are... but i feel that open communication is the way along with honesty...just ask her on what's up.

Yep. What he said.

Keep in mind when you have doubts there usually is a reason.

My thoughts are that you should let her know of your interest and concerns exactly as you have presented them here in this forum. Accept no excuses, rather ask her to be completely honest with you.

I hope you are not someone's booty call. Unless you want that! You're going to have to get a serious discussion going with her in person to really gauge what's going on. Best wishes to you. It's great when you find someone who can keep you smiling!!

What I would do in my past was just move on . I mean we are just dating there is no commitment. THough I have told her and she has told me that we wanted to go slow. But I think the only way to get to know someone is repetition u have to actually see them to know . SO lately The past week this has made me more depressed and stressed out than it should be. So I'm 99% sure I'm just going to move on . I just wanted to see what u thought.

Yes but since I don't get to see here as much I have more sad days than smile days.

Anytime you're getting involved with a mom or a dad, you're getting involved with a whole family. She's probably been burned before and doesn't want to get her hopes up too much and be let down again. I know the feeling. You definitely should discuss it with her, like the others have said.

You are not going to actually talk to her? Wow.

if it was me i would see what happens for more time.this is a big thing for her and you.with kids in envolved it is a very tricky thing.i would love to hook up with a girl that makes me lol.yes i have met lots of them here and even months of emails and now 2 that i talk to on the phone often.i still have a long road ahead of me and bringing a girl into my life with a child.some pepole just go for it from the get go.my x has met 6 new guys off the net and brought them to meet my daughter in 6 months.go with your heart does she feel worth waiting for.you closest friend will tell you the best addvice and listen to him or her.they are not blind from love.and they will allways be your friend.you can always find a new girl.a friend is for life.

those are great points.

I'm kinda confused as to why your profile says looking for a woman for a relationship if you're in one...

of course I would talk to her. I'm just saying when i got burned in the past. ok here one thing I have'nt mentioned and I guess its ok to now since its nothing u can't say in the open. her son Has a mitral valve replacement in 3 months . So i know she is scared about that. Any parent would be THis is the kids second one in 3 yrs.



So I understand everything going on here As far As those things are concerned.

maybe you shouldn't think in terms of fish.

Well sh!t, no wonder she's busy... she must be soooo stressed!

then you should quit trippin.
if you want to offer her support without the demands on her time right now, that would probably go over well.

I would keep trying it with her

dating is not a commited relationship. If It was solid I would change that. Hey I just came out of a marriage where the wife told me she loved me. to then after we finally tied the knot telling me she enjoys a certain lifestyle of money. u need to get a better paying job. Did'nt matter If I liked the job I was doing. So telling me I need to change looking when there are no commitments yet. that not really fair.