Topic: Do the guilty???
jonny63's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:51 PM
Were you ever accused of being unfaithful in a marriage only to
much later find out that your spouse was the cheater the whole time?

MonkeyBob's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:52 PM

Were you ever accused of being unfaithful in a marriage only to
much later find out that your spouse was the cheater the whole time?
yup but she wasn't the whole time.

no photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:53 PM
Hmmmmmmmmm no Ive never been accused of it.......noway noway noway noway

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:53 PM
nope

MonkeyBob's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:54 PM

Hmmmmmmmmm no Ive never been accused of it.......noway noway noway noway
lucky you. its not easy to prove it even though you're innocent.

Kaseynej's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:55 PM
Isn't that usually how it goes? The guilty party gets suspicous because they figure if they're doing it you must be too?

MonkeyBob's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:56 PM

Isn't that usually how it goes? The guilty party gets suspicous because they figure if they're doing it you must be too?
yep its usually the untrusting ones that prove to be untrustworthy

seahawks's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:58 PM

Isn't that usually how it goes? The guilty party gets suspicous because they figure if they're doing it you must be too?
bingo.!! you got it.!!

ShellyinAZ's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:58 PM
no

itsmetina's photo
Sat 03/22/08 10:58 PM
f------ cheaters

MonkeyBob's photo
Sat 03/22/08 11:00 PM

f------ cheaters
Thats alright i'm a firm believer in karma. what goes around comes around

jonny63's photo
Sat 03/22/08 11:03 PM
Edited by jonny63 on Sat 03/22/08 11:05 PM


f------ cheaters
Thats alright i'm a firm believer in karma. what goes around comes around

Since our split she has never found a single soul to love her.
serves her right!drinker

I will add that all people can change:smile:

elsathebloody's photo
Sat 03/22/08 11:07 PM
No, but I did lie horribly only to find out my boyfriend was keeping a huge secret too.

It wasn't cheating.
We resolved it.

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Sat 03/22/08 11:25 PM

Were you ever accused of being unfaithful in a marriage only to
much later find out that your spouse was the cheater the whole time?


No, I wasn't married long enough for her to finish making the accusation.

It was still too long, though.




texasrose9's photo
Sun 03/23/08 09:50 AM

Isn't that usually how it goes? The guilty party gets suspicous because they figure if they're doing it you must be too?


Yes, I have. He went through an elaborate production of accusing me and I was innocent. HE, however, was not so innocent....as I eventually discovered.

me2g's photo
Sun 03/23/08 09:57 AM

Were you ever accused of being unfaithful in a marriage only to
much later find out that your spouse was the cheater the whole time?


huh adfgsdhrtrrgrumble

texasrose9's photo
Sun 03/23/08 09:59 AM


Were you ever accused of being unfaithful in a marriage only to
much later find out that your spouse was the cheater the whole time?


huh adfgsdhrtrrgrumble



What does that mean?

hellkitten54's photo
Sun 03/23/08 10:02 AM
Edited by hellkitten54 on Sun 03/23/08 10:03 AM
My ex-husband used to think me and my tattoo artist were doing it. I spent hours at the tattoo shop, getting tattooed. I don't know if he could tell, seeing is how I would come home with new tattoos.noway noway Oh well....drinker drinker drinker


Oh but edit to say that he was only guilty of cheating on me by doing drugs.

Moondark's photo
Sun 03/23/08 10:03 AM
I think this happens because a person running around behind a partners back usually assigns his or her own motivations to the partners behaviors that may have nothing whatsoever to do with cheating.

Man is having an affair, he starts getting suspicious that his wife is keeping something from him. Finally, he blows up and accuses her of all sorts of terrible things and of having an affair with his best friend. Turns out, all she was doing was planning a surprise birthday party for him.....

Woman is having an affair. Husband is starting to work late on certain nights or go do something with a friend on a certain night. Woman bumps into said friend someplace else and knows it isn't true. Woman goes ballistic and says he his having an affair and all. Turns out he was taking dance lessons to surprise her on their anniversary, since she loved to dance and he never learned how.


me2g's photo
Sun 03/23/08 10:04 AM



Were you ever accused of being unfaithful in a marriage only to
much later find out that your spouse was the cheater the whole time?


huh adfgsdhrtrrgrumble



What does that mean?


My X would accuse me of cheating no matter what i did... I NEVER in my life have ever cheated but she accused... til I busted her asz IN MY house!!! dude was lucky i didnt kill him... grumble grumble