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Topic: Should I take a chance to meet him?
sandylou2456 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 1590	Mon 01/08/07 02:59 PM
Good idea tneal...I never would have thought of that.....LOL But I am always honest, so I would probably have to just tell him that I didn't think we were hitting at off and just not see him anymore....I would not want someone just to do a disappearing act on me without an explanation...LOL

devin112 Joined Wed 10/25/06 Posts: 3592	Mon 01/08/07 03:03 PM
DONT FORGET THE PEPPER SPRAY LOL.

sandylou2456 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 1590	Mon 01/08/07 03:04 PM
Oh myy....Do ya really think I am going to need it?

sandylou2456 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 1590	Mon 01/08/07 03:05 PM
You are suppose to be giving me words of Encouragement Devin, not make me paranoid.....lol

4fun06 Joined Sun 08/20/06 Posts: 4618	Mon 01/08/07 03:06 PM
does he want to meet ya???

sandylou2456 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 1590	Mon 01/08/07 03:11 PM
yes he does...He is real excited about meeting...I told him just to wait and get to know each other a little better by talking on the phone first..to see if we think we are gonna click...He says he can tell by our phone converstions that we are already clicking....Hmmmm

santhana Joined Sat 12/16/06 Posts: 103	Mon 01/08/07 03:12 PM
good idea Tneal. I like your article. Sandy, do you have children, if you don't let me know, I will be the one for you. :)

santhana Joined Sat 12/16/06 Posts: 103	Mon 01/08/07 03:17 PM
well, how old is he? if he over 50, I think it is less dangerous. it is only younger people who you need to be careful. I understand when people old, they don't really have that kind of sin in head. they're only wish for long lives and good health, happiness whatever... It is different when we are as teen, Teen is hot, do something stupid.

devin112 Joined Wed 10/25/06 Posts: 3592	Mon 01/08/07 03:19 PM
JUST PREPARING YOU FOR REALITY DARLING.

sandylou2456 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 1590	Mon 01/08/07 03:21 PM
Yes, Santhana...I have children, but they are all grown and on their own....I have just me to worry about ..and..the special man I hope to meet someday. and hmmm we never know whos out there for us ...now do we?

sandylou2456 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 1590	Mon 01/08/07 03:22 PM
And Yes Santhana he is 55 ...so if that is any sign ..mabye he will be an all right guy....

santhana Joined Sat 12/16/06 Posts: 103	Mon 01/08/07 03:24 PM
it is my pleasure Sandy, I can be your son to care about you. just hope that you have you man soon. and if you don't think of me I will be whenever you need.

sandylou2456 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 1590	Mon 01/08/07 03:24 PM
TY Devin...Believe me I have had to face Reality a lot here lately.....I am a very realistic person....

sandylou2456 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 1590	Mon 01/08/07 03:26 PM
TY Santhana....I will keep you in mind....Be watching for my post about my meeting....wink

santhana Joined Sat 12/16/06 Posts: 103	Mon 01/08/07 03:27 PM
sure, I will. God blesses you.

sandylou2456 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 1590	Mon 01/08/07 03:33 PM
Ooops..Just now noticed how badly I misspelled your name.... lol Sorry Santhana

santhana Joined Sat 12/16/06 Posts: 103	Mon 01/08/07 03:37 PM
it is ok, just relax and wait for the date day comming, go for it. and have a happy dinner with him.

horseracer Joined Thu 09/07/06 Posts: 584	Mon 01/08/07 03:48 PM
yeah go for it and meet him just keep your guard up. thats wat dating on the internet is all about

MikeM68 Joined Wed 07/26/06 Posts: 2638	Mon 01/08/07 04:22 PM
sandylou just like dreamweaver said PUBLIC PLACE most of all but I'd take a taxi or something so as to not let him even know what I drive or my license plate number (some people have ties) also you might wanna set up family or friends to be present like at another table or something to be safe.

MikeM68 Joined Wed 07/26/06 Posts: 2638	Mon 01/08/07 04:23 PM
sandlou and santhana don't let age fool you I saw a story about an edlery man I think on AMW, that was calling about wedding gowns for sale and then going to the houses to look at them and raping the women.