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Topic: Is it really better
toastedoranges's photo
Sat 03/22/08 08:36 PM
i'd say yes, but it would seem to be something that would depend from situation to situation

no photo
Sat 03/22/08 08:42 PM

to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all?


i'm beginning to think that the latter would have been the better route to take. At least lately, that is.

toastedoranges's photo
Sat 03/22/08 08:44 PM


to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all?


i'm beginning to think that the latter would have been the better route to take. At least lately, that is.


at least you get to learn and grow. most every negative has a positive side as well

pkh's photo
Sat 03/22/08 08:44 PM
I'm going through that right now,yes I've loved but to actually be in love this is the first for me...and it was the best feeling in the world,although we are ending it due to differences I would not change a thing.It was amazing and wonderful,yes it hurts now,but to have felt that was great

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Sat 03/22/08 08:45 PM



to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all?


i'm beginning to think that the latter would have been the better route to take. At least lately, that is.


at least you get to learn and grow. most every negative has a positive side as well


especially if the negatives outweigh the positives- you learn never to go through that crap again, at least in some cases.

no photo
Sat 03/22/08 08:47 PM
I try to look at it as "learning" and not "losing" -- to gain something from every bad relationship, even if it's just a little more understanding about what works for me and what doesn't.


creationsfire's photo
Sat 03/22/08 08:48 PM
Edited by creationsfire on Sat 03/22/08 08:49 PM

no....before it happened, you didn't know what you were missing....


I agree, BUT since thqt never happened I will have to also agree with Lex

lulu24's photo
Sat 03/22/08 09:09 PM
i think it depends on the loss, as well as who initiated it.

i don't regret my marriage for instance...

you never get over suicide, on the other hand...

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