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Hot is an opinion not fact  Wow buried in the pile of worm bedding I found this truth! |
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 pass the worms, preferably the gummy kind
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Cat I am also hypothyroid & the weight isn't the worst of it, is it?
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hell no and if nobody has never experienced it...just ask we'll tell ya what it's all about.
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i heard worms are fattening.....
thats why i like to snack on sheep |
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I prefer lamb chops myself
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i heard worms are fattening..... thats why i like to snack on sheep Sweet breads that is? 
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"Attraction isn't a choice" - David DeAngelo Men are attracted to women differently than women are attracted to men. The problem is, people tend to assume attraction works the same for the opposite sex as it does for them. It doesn't. Men are generally attracted to women with a high replication value (appearance) while women tend to be attracted towards men with a high survival value. true, but we aren't living in caves anymore. True, but the same prinicpal still applies today. It's evolutionary and our emotions are pre-wired to feel attraction for these traits. so how is it that some people are attracted to others based on traits, like, I don't know, intelligence, kindness, wit, honesty? Are they just more highly evolved? so now a person who is not attracted to a big woman, or ugly woman is less intelligent, or evolved? lmao. Awesome a person who cannot value another person for any traits beyond the superficial is less highly evolved in my opinion, yes. Anyway, the poster that I was responding to was talking about how we are wired that way for survival, which is no longer necessary. And I was asking a question, not stating an opinion. If they are not more highly evolved, then how do you explain it? i'm gonna jump in and say that we develop personal taste based on what we've been exposed to and how we've been taught. what kind of example was set for us. were your parents/friends open and friendly and accepting of all types of people? was your environment sterile-only the same general types of people in and out of your world? what were your own parents physical or intellectual traits? how were other/different/unattractive/fat people talked about in your home or general environment. that kind of stuff gets in your head early(without you ever realizing what it is your mind is taking in). maybe it changes a bit as we grow up or mature-whichever applies-but alot of it is there from way back when and we don't even realize that we've been taught that stuff until we find ourselves alone wondering why no one seems to be good enough for us. |
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I agree with you Tinabelle.
So how were you raised? In a trailer park?
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the majority of heavy people are heavy becuz their calorie intake is greater then the calories they are burning. That is a fact and not generalizing. yeah and the majority of health professionals smoke ..we all have our crosses to bear.
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Dude, attraction is the first step....it has to be there, don,t feel bad, Your not sexist, or a BBW hater...KJH
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To answer the op,I have dated men heavier than me and skinnier.Never really cared but I will say I have a hard time if their boobs are bigger than mine.
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"Attraction isn't a choice" - David DeAngelo Men are attracted to women differently than women are attracted to men. The problem is, people tend to assume attraction works the same for the opposite sex as it does for them. It doesn't. Men are generally attracted to women with a high replication value (appearance) while women tend to be attracted towards men with a high survival value. true, but we aren't living in caves anymore. True, but the same prinicpal still applies today. It's evolutionary and our emotions are pre-wired to feel attraction for these traits. so how is it that some people are attracted to others based on traits, like, I don't know, intelligence, kindness, wit, honesty? Are they just more highly evolved? so now a person who is not attracted to a big woman, or ugly woman is less intelligent, or evolved? lmao. Awesome a person who cannot value another person for any traits beyond the superficial is less highly evolved in my opinion, yes. Anyway, the poster that I was responding to was talking about how we are wired that way for survival, which is no longer necessary. And I was asking a question, not stating an opinion. If they are not more highly evolved, then how do you explain it? i'm gonna jump in and say that we develop personal taste based on what we've been exposed to and how we've been taught. what kind of example was set for us. were your parents/friends open and friendly and accepting of all types of people? was your environment sterile-only the same general types of people in and out of your world? what were your own parents physical or intellectual traits? how were other/different/unattractive/fat people talked about in your home or general environment. that kind of stuff gets in your head early(without you ever realizing what it is your mind is taking in). maybe it changes a bit as we grow up or mature-whichever applies-but alot of it is there from way back when and we don't even realize that we've been taught that stuff until we find ourselves alone wondering why no one seems to be good enough for us. hey tina belle thats my apartment complex.I'm in the pent house trailer 
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Edited by
dolphin14
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Sat 03/22/08 07:52 PM
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the majority of heavy people are heavy becuz their calorie intake is greater then the calories they are burning. That is a fact and not generalizing. yeah and the majority of health professionals smoke ..we all have our crosses to bear. OMG... u are so right and i am not sure why, other then they must use it to relieve stress...I used to work at a hospital on the cancer floor of all places and probably half the nurses smoked..... |
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To answer the op,I have dated men heavier than me and skinnier.Never really cared but I will say I have a hard time if their boobs are bigger than mine. OMG that was too funny!!!! Yeah if they look better in my bra then I do...we have a problem there
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i wouldn't have minded THAT trailer park
<---- i am ashamed to admit that i was raised by a wonderful open father(preacher-very loving), and a high yellow mixed (black and native) mother. mom was a bit of a snob. had opinions on real dark black people, fat people, people who dressed in certain clothes... she was a real snob! but i went to a school that had a very international student body-so thats how i got out alive and reasonably well adjusted. ...but mom was a real pill. shes has really changed as she has aged, and as her children have brought home and married a colorful variety of spouses. |
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Many women I know that smoke think it helps them stay thin. This shows how impartant that body image is to them.
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Tina I like the torquise trailer...
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the majority of heavy people are heavy becuz their calorie intake is greater then the calories they are burning. That is a fact and not generalizing. yeah and the majority of health professionals smoke ..we all have our crosses to bear. OMG... u are so right and i am not sure why, other then they must use it to relieve stress...I used to work at a hospital on the cancer floor of all places and probably half the nurses smoked..... we have a nursing person WITH cancer and she smokes more than ever even though they took her breast.I don't get the mentality. |
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hey tina belle thats my apartment complex.I'm in the pent house trailer i get the teal one and the orange one tho-my fav colors |
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