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Topic: There is no Real,True,Devoted Love between human beings.
rodfcutler's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:06 AM
The only truest type of unselfish,most devoted and 100 percent dedicated bonding love is between animals and humans.Once they love you,it is 110 percent for life.
We humans can reason,and therefore can judge others,while lower forms of life,cannot reason,but once they form a bond with someone,that bond lasts a lifetime!



Rodster

no photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:08 AM
i believe there is is u meet the right person

alon4now's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:11 AM

The only truest type of unselfish,most devoted and 100 percent dedicated bonding love is between animals and humans.Once they love you,it is 110 percent for life.
We humans can reason,and therefore can judge others,while lower forms of life,cannot reason,but once they form a bond with someone,that bond lasts a lifetime!



Rodster


Not true. love we humans can do but the relationship part we sometimes give up on. Doesn't mean love has died.

1stfizz's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:15 AM
False; true love does and can happen...we tend to let our brains and emotions become expectant and judgemental... we have high expectations of what we want and become selfish, rather than making it a "team effort" . High five on the uniform there, heehee

MrMxyzptlk's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:17 AM
...the following statement is true.....the preceding statement was false!

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:19 AM
umm..no one is going to tell me that my love for my child is not 100% unselfish and dedicated.

CLASSIC55's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:24 AM
Not true! As humans, our flaw is that more often, we quickly become wonderous and tend to seek better instead of being satisfied...we become unappreciative and take for granted..thus even when in a relationship we stop making the effort...we as humans are flawed...where as animals don't care about the nonsense we humans do and will remain a couple for life...animals don't look over at another and think to them selves...hmmmm...now that one there is better looking....smarter...has more food stored...we as humans are flawed with having the ability to think...too much...and in true form show OUR lower intelligence...and then whine when we have nothing!ohwell We could learn more from animals :smile:

Jtevans's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:25 AM

The only truest type of unselfish,most devoted and 100 percent dedicated bonding love is between animals and humans.Once they love you,it is 110 percent for life.
We humans can reason,and therefore can judge others,while lower forms of life,cannot reason,but once they form a bond with someone,that bond lasts a lifetime!



Rodster



i have to agree with you!

rodfcutler's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:25 AM
I did not mean that in any way,shape,or form! I meant that the initial meeting of someone seems true and down to earth,but 9 times out of 10,when one marries,it eventually leads to divorce.Alot of life,once they mate with another,that union is for life!
Animals dont have divorces,like us humans have!PLease accept my apologies if you missunderstood my meaning!

rodfcutler's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:27 AM
Most definately Sir.I totally agree with you and Thanks for your input!

gowings2007's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:28 AM
I'll give you that animals are more devoted than humans, but not so sure on the love part :smile:

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Sat 03/22/08 07:29 AM

The only truest type of unselfish,most devoted and 100 percent dedicated bonding love is between animals and humans.Once they love you,it is 110 percent for life.
We humans can reason,and therefore can judge others,while lower forms of life,cannot reason,but once they form a bond with someone,that bond lasts a lifetime!



Rodster

Obviously, you've never been a mother. As animals, human females typically have the same instincts as other animals.....that is to love & protect their offspring unconditionally. And that love definitely lasts a lifetime.

Now, relationships between adults might be a little different, and they can require some 'work' to last a lifetime. It's clearly not instinctual. But also not impossible.

gowings2007's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:29 AM

umm..no one is going to tell me that my love for my child is not 100% unselfish and dedicated.


{{hiker}} totally agree... mine are driving me crazy right now, but alas, I remain devoted...:wink:

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:36 AM


The only truest type of unselfish,most devoted and 100 percent dedicated bonding love is between animals and humans.Once they love you,it is 110 percent for life.
We humans can reason,and therefore can judge others,while lower forms of life,cannot reason,but once they form a bond with someone,that bond lasts a lifetime!



Rodster


Not true. love we humans can do but the relationship part we sometimes give up on. Doesn't mean love has died.


what happened to the shallow boy I used to love?

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:37 AM

I did not mean that in any way,shape,or form! I meant that the initial meeting of someone seems true and down to earth,but 9 times out of 10,when one marries,it eventually leads to divorce.Alot of life,once they mate with another,that union is for life!
Animals dont have divorces,like us humans have!PLease accept my apologies if you missunderstood my meaning!


I agree that way too many marriages fail, but I do not think it is currently 9 out of 10. I think it is more like 50%.

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:39 AM

I did not mean that in any way,shape,or form! I meant that the initial meeting of someone seems true and down to earth,but 9 times out of 10,when one marries,it eventually leads to divorce.Alot of life,once they mate with another,that union is for life!
Animals dont have divorces,like us humans have!PLease accept my apologies if you missunderstood my meaning!


When I put a stud in the goat pen, he mates with all of the females. Nobody in the pen has a problem with this; and the females remain friends.

rodfcutler's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:39 AM
As stated before,I was not meaning that a womans love for her child is not true and doesnt las t a lifetime.I was talking about the initial meeting of 2 human adults,getting hooked up,prematurely having kids,getting married,then eventually getting a divorce,which in turn hurts the kids and tears them apart!!
Animals have never known divorce,and never will.Besides their bond between them and humans are 110 percent dedicated,for the rest of their lives!None of this,married once,twice,or countless number of times?
THINK ABOUT IT?

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/22/08 07:39 AM

Most definately Sir.I totally agree with you and Thanks for your input!


Rod -How do we know who you are talking to?

lilith401's photo
Sat 03/22/08 08:01 AM
OP~ If I read your post correctly, then your idea is incorrect on it's face. If you say animals do not judge and humans do, then humans and animals cannot have true devoted love. The human "owner" would judge the animal, therefore making the bond one-sided.

And I agree with the other parents in here. I will love my son no matter what. No question.

chuck366's photo
Sat 03/22/08 08:03 AM

The only truest type of unselfish,most devoted and 100 percent dedicated bonding love is between animals and humans.Once they love you,it is 110 percent for life.
We humans can reason,and therefore can judge others,while lower forms of life,cannot reason,but once they form a bond with someone,that bond lasts a lifetime!



Rodster


interesting concept

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