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Topic: advice please...
lilith401's photo
Fri 03/21/08 12:12 PM


Well, since I'm using my keyboard here...

...And I live not within just the confines of societal definitions, too. Guess I'm lucky that way.

That's great! If you're able to see it, then you can steer clear of those pitfalls.


Thank you. flowerforyou

All I was trying to say. And it helps me spot the ones who do play games. We are more alike than you might think. I do what feels right, not what is in the "book" of rules (games). It works for me.

padams9098's photo
Fri 03/21/08 12:14 PM



Well, since I'm using my keyboard here...

...And I live not within just the confines of societal definitions, too. Guess I'm lucky that way.

That's great! If you're able to see it, then you can steer clear of those pitfalls.


Thank you. flowerforyou

All I was trying to say. And it helps me spot the ones who do play games. We are more alike than you might think. I do what feels right, not what is in the "book" of rules (games). It works for me.


I was generalizing, sorry; I know that's a dirty word laugh It's always nice to find those that are outside of the box though. flowerforyou

BlueskyJ's photo
Fri 03/21/08 12:21 PM
Had a great date, clicked n all.Just not getting shown the "interest" since then....What to do now???Great on both sides I was told.Time to give up and start over ???Again??????????? uggh!
Guys, why cant ya just say what you mean and mean what ya say.....oh wait, nope....do what youll say youll do...even better........

This has happened to me too....If he hasn't contacted you since Monday he's probably not interested, but just in case I would send him an email or a phone call, cause he might have lost your contact info....

I have found that in relationships Honesty, Communication, & Knowing Oneself are deeply connected....

When I am in touch with my thoughts & feelings, willing to communicate them, and am honest when expressing them, the relationship develops with greater connections....

I will talk about any topic without censorship....my directness often surprises women, and in a good way....and like you said, We all need to follow through with what we say we are going to do.....:wink:

uk_bloke's photo
Fri 03/21/08 12:34 PM
im sorry, i retract my earlier comment, it was uncalled for and was meant 'tongue in cheek'.

i hope he is just 'busy with other things', maybe you need to give him the benefit of the doubt there and assume he is.

good luck :smile: flowerforyou

no photo
Fri 03/21/08 12:42 PM

im sorry, i retract my earlier comment, it was uncalled for and was meant 'tongue in cheek'.

i hope he is just 'busy with other things', maybe you need to give him the benefit of the doubt there and assume he is.

good luck :smile: flowerforyou


love

myssfytz's photo
Fri 03/21/08 05:32 PM

As good as a time you both may have had, keep in mind you do not know what is going on for him. Don't invest more than you can afford to lose and continue to meet people. If he pops back up, he does. If not, it is his loss.

Try not to judge too fast, although I know it's frustrating to think we he could not have just sent you an email. It's happened to all of us.
true, i dont like the waiting period i guess.ugh to it!! thanks for the sweet words, i appreciate it.just havent clicked with someone so easily in a long time thats all.

JaceKnows's photo
Fri 03/21/08 05:35 PM
Edited by JaceKnows on Fri 03/21/08 05:56 PM
Whatever you do, don't try and force anything.

Yeah, the waiting game sucks sometimes...

But in the end, you, he, all of us, we're human. And people are people. There might be a reason, there might not. To thine ownself be true. (=

myssfytz's photo
Fri 03/21/08 05:36 PM

im sorry, i retract my earlier comment, it was uncalled for and was meant 'tongue in cheek'.

i hope he is just 'busy with other things', maybe you need to give him the benefit of the doubt there and assume he is.

good luck :smile: flowerforyou


thanks...but i guess we shall see...youre a little cutie uk bloke...:wink:

myssfytz's photo
Fri 03/21/08 05:55 PM

Whatever you do, don't try and force anything.

Yeah, the waiting game sucks sometimes...

But in the end, you, he, all of us, we're humman. And people are people. There might be a reason, there might not. To thine ownself be true. (=
whats up gen. lee??? thanks...we have chatted a little byt, just not like i would think after meeting...i dunno...all you guys have been great here..thanx

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