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these stupid threads never get nothing but every one argueing
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not assaulting.....just analyzing like usual. I analyze my analyzing........
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Its true!!! I catch myself doing that all the time!!!! My brain never stops!!! and I really wish it would for once!!!
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yes I know u always somewhere,doing something
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Edited by
lilith401
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Fri 03/21/08 11:51 AM
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I think if people feel that they are being "assaulted"... that says they take things personally. After all, aren't we relative strangers in here? How can that be taken personally?
My point is that I was not raised that way. Why is that an "assault"? Quick...hurry... call the SWAT guys in... grab the smoke grenades... run for cover... |
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<----calls in the NINJAS!!!
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Is this another male bashing thread?
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Is this another male bashing thread? You feeling up to it, Mirror? |
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If it was a male bashing thread........you would all be dead!!
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Edited by
padams9098
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Fri 03/21/08 12:03 PM
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I think if people feel that they are being "assaulted"... that says they take things personally. After all, aren't we relative strangers in here? How can that be taken personally? My point is that I was not raised that way. Why is that an "assault"? Quick...hurry... call the SWAT guys in... grab the smoke grenades... run for cover... Didn't you know the pen is mightier than the sword? And, your parents may NOT have raised you that way, but you can't avoid it if you live in this country. Society has very clear (and sometimes strange) definitions for women and men. |
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Edited by
lilith401
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Fri 03/21/08 12:06 PM
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Well, since I'm using my keyboard here...
...And I live not within just the confines of societal definitions, too. Guess I'm lucky that way. |
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He could just be busy. You had a good date. I wouldn't stress too much about it or you'll talk yourself right out of it. Or turn into that desperate clingy chick which is no fun.
As for guys being chickens....if they really like you, they're not. And being divorced or what not, just means they're probably leary of the dating scene. Been burned once and all that. And probably not into drama. Just relax. Find something else to do with your time to keep you busy until he does call. Otherwise, you're conversation will probably lose the ease and simplicity it had. Good luck! |
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I think if people feel that they are being "assaulted"... that says they take things personally. After all, aren't we relative strangers in here? How can that be taken personally? My point is that I was not raised that way. Why is that an "assault"? Quick...hurry... call the SWAT guys in... grab the smoke grenades... run for cover... Didn't you know the pen is mightier than the sword? And, your parents may NOT have raised you that way, but you can't avoid it if you live in this country. Society has very clear (and sometimes strange) definitions for women and men. |
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I think if people feel that they are being "assaulted"... that says they take things personally. After all, aren't we relative strangers in here? How can that be taken personally? My point is that I was not raised that way. Why is that an "assault"? Quick...hurry... call the SWAT guys in... grab the smoke grenades... run for cover... Didn't you know the pen is mightier than the sword? And, your parents may NOT have raised you that way, but you can't avoid it if you live in this country. Society has very clear (and sometimes strange) definitions for women and men. Well, yeah, ninjas are cool! |
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if ya didnt put out on the first date, why should he come back for more???
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He could just be busy. You had a good date. I wouldn't stress too much about it or you'll talk yourself right out of it. Or turn into that desperate clingy chick which is no fun. As for guys being chickens....if they really like you, they're not. And being divorced or what not, just means they're probably leary of the dating scene. Been burned once and all that. And probably not into drama. Just relax. Find something else to do with your time to keep you busy until he does call. Otherwise, you're conversation will probably lose the ease and simplicity it had. Good luck! I second that. he could be busy. There's this guy I used to talk to every night all night long and one day he told me he couldn't do that anymore because he needed to get his life in order. I miss talking to him, but I respect the fact he has other priorities besides talking to me. Also, you have to consider that time is different for everyone, he might not think it's been a long time since he talked to you. People- not just men- are strange. |
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Edited by
katydid34
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Fri 03/21/08 12:09 PM
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if ya didnt put out on the first date, why should he come back for more??? I'm going to assume that's a joke. And if she did put out on the first date, it would only send him away, because most guys don't want to date a slut. |
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Well, since I'm using my keyboard here... ...And I live not within just the confines of societal definitions, too. Guess I'm lucky that way. That's great! If you're able to see it, then you can steer clear of those pitfalls. |
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uk u know that was the wrong thing to say dont u,I cant believe u would even say that ,its guys like u that give us bad names
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