Topic: advice please...
OrangeCat's photo
Fri 03/21/08 11:46 AM
these stupid threads never get nothing but every one argueing

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Fri 03/21/08 11:47 AM
not assaulting.....just analyzing like usual. I analyze my analyzing........laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

OrangeCat's photo
Fri 03/21/08 11:48 AM
laugh

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Fri 03/21/08 11:49 AM
Its true!!! I catch myself doing that all the time!!!! My brain never stops!!!noway laugh noway grumble grumble and I really wish it would for once!!!grumble grumble grumble grumble

OrangeCat's photo
Fri 03/21/08 11:50 AM
yes I know u always somewhere,doing something huh

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Fri 03/21/08 11:50 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Fri 03/21/08 11:51 AM
I think if people feel that they are being "assaulted"... that says they take things personally. After all, aren't we relative strangers in here? How can that be taken personally?

My point is that I was not raised that way.

Why is that an "assault"? Quick...hurry... call the SWAT guys in... grab the smoke grenades... run for cover... noway

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Fri 03/21/08 11:51 AM
<----calls in the NINJAS!!!glasses

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 03/21/08 11:53 AM
laugh Is this another male bashing thread? laugh

lilith401's photo
Fri 03/21/08 11:55 AM

laugh Is this another male bashing thread? laugh


You feeling up to it, Mirror?

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Fri 03/21/08 11:55 AM
If it was a male bashing thread........you would all be dead!!devil

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Fri 03/21/08 11:59 AM
Edited by padams9098 on Fri 03/21/08 12:03 PM

I think if people feel that they are being "assaulted"... that says they take things personally. After all, aren't we relative strangers in here? How can that be taken personally?

My point is that I was not raised that way.

Why is that an "assault"? Quick...hurry... call the SWAT guys in... grab the smoke grenades... run for cover... noway

Didn't you know the pen is mightier than the sword? :tongue: grumble
And, your parents may NOT have raised you that way, but you can't avoid it if you live in this country. Society has very clear (and sometimes strange) definitions for women and men.

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Fri 03/21/08 12:02 PM
Edited by lilith401 on Fri 03/21/08 12:06 PM
Well, since I'm using my keyboard here...

...And I live not within just the confines of societal definitions, too. Guess I'm lucky that way.

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Fri 03/21/08 12:03 PM
He could just be busy. You had a good date. I wouldn't stress too much about it or you'll talk yourself right out of it. Or turn into that desperate clingy chick which is no fun.

As for guys being chickens....if they really like you, they're not. And being divorced or what not, just means they're probably leary of the dating scene. Been burned once and all that. And probably not into drama.

Just relax. Find something else to do with your time to keep you busy until he does call. Otherwise, you're conversation will probably lose the ease and simplicity it had.

Good luck!

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Fri 03/21/08 12:05 PM


I think if people feel that they are being "assaulted"... that says they take things personally. After all, aren't we relative strangers in here? How can that be taken personally?

My point is that I was not raised that way.

Why is that an "assault"? Quick...hurry... call the SWAT guys in... grab the smoke grenades... run for cover... noway

Didn't you know the pen is mightier than the sword? :tongue: grumble
And, your parents may NOT have raised you that way, but you can't avoid it if you live in this country. Society has very clear (and sometimes strange) definitions for women and men.
Society can say all they want!! I still want to be a ninja!!!devil glasses

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Fri 03/21/08 12:05 PM



I think if people feel that they are being "assaulted"... that says they take things personally. After all, aren't we relative strangers in here? How can that be taken personally?

My point is that I was not raised that way.

Why is that an "assault"? Quick...hurry... call the SWAT guys in... grab the smoke grenades... run for cover... noway

Didn't you know the pen is mightier than the sword? :tongue: grumble
And, your parents may NOT have raised you that way, but you can't avoid it if you live in this country. Society has very clear (and sometimes strange) definitions for women and men.
Society can say all they want!! I still want to be a ninja!!!devil glasses

Well, yeah, ninjas are cool! laugh drinker

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Fri 03/21/08 12:06 PM
if ya didnt put out on the first date, why should he come back for more???

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Fri 03/21/08 12:07 PM

He could just be busy. You had a good date. I wouldn't stress too much about it or you'll talk yourself right out of it. Or turn into that desperate clingy chick which is no fun.

As for guys being chickens....if they really like you, they're not. And being divorced or what not, just means they're probably leary of the dating scene. Been burned once and all that. And probably not into drama.

Just relax. Find something else to do with your time to keep you busy until he does call. Otherwise, you're conversation will probably lose the ease and simplicity it had.

Good luck!


I second that. he could be busy. There's this guy I used to talk to every night all night long and one day he told me he couldn't do that anymore because he needed to get his life in order. I miss talking to him, but I respect the fact he has other priorities besides talking to me. Also, you have to consider that time is different for everyone, he might not think it's been a long time since he talked to you. People- not just men- are strange.

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Fri 03/21/08 12:08 PM
Edited by katydid34 on Fri 03/21/08 12:09 PM

if ya didnt put out on the first date, why should he come back for more???


I'm going to assume that's a joke. And if she did put out on the first date, it would only send him away, because most guys don't want to date a slut.

padams9098's photo
Fri 03/21/08 12:10 PM

Well, since I'm using my keyboard here...

...And I live not within just the confines of societal definitions, too. Guess I'm lucky that way.

That's great! If you're able to see it, then you can steer clear of those pitfalls.

OrangeCat's photo
Fri 03/21/08 12:10 PM
uk u know that was the wrong thing to say dont u,I cant believe u would even say that ,its guys like u that give us bad names