I am meeting someone from JSH, and he is driving 21 hours to visit me for a week. And I am REALLY nervous. What do I do? As in, I'm afraid I'm going to have to entertain him, and what if I run out of things to do? And what if we end up not liking each other? We do like each other now, but we've only talked on here and on the phone. And if we do like each other, what then? He lives 21 hours away, by car. HELP!! Please.

Breathe....

Please please help me!

all I can say is you better put out

ok first of all calm down....you must have a good connection going with him or he wouldnt drive that far to see you....stay calm and dont look at it too far ahead...take each day as a new start...and best wishes to you....make the best of the time you share

be yourself,plus play video games even more if ya get bored.

That's messed up! I can't believe you said that!

Just try and have fun you might be better frinds than lovers but who knows. Have dinner, watch a movie and relax

Get a grip...sheesh.

Thank you!

Jess, I'm not sure there is an answer.. I think that you just have to wing it.. plan a few things and if you mesh then the rest will go smoothly.. if you don't romantically hopefully you will as friends and you can just do things and have fun... If not at all then you both have to chalk it up to life's experiences and call it a day.. You're only human darlin'...

ok I gots to ask... who u seeing?

I dont kiss and tell. lol

I'm sorry I figured if I drove 21 hours I would think you would care enough for me to relax my stress and that's a lot of stress.......

awwwww

1. Take a deep breath
2. Try to plan at least one outing a day while he's thier (movie, a game,the zoo etc what ever you 2 might have in common)
3. Ask him what he'd like to do
4. I'm sure if the two of you hit it off online and on the phone, it'll be fine.
5.RELAX AND HAVE FUN

Enjoy , hope it works out 4 you.

for that guy that said you should put out...... im suprised you havent got your butt kicked for saying that, if someone said that to me, they would be history

She don't have to put out maybe just lend a HAND!!!!!!

21 hours? That's quite a haul. I'm going to go on the assumption that someone that would drive 21 hours would NOT do so just for a booty call.... so there has to be something pretty special between the two of you. . .

That being said, then let things progress naturally between you. I would hope that you planned things better than beyond, "Sure, drive 21 hours. This'll be great!".

A movie and popcorn is good, but that's one or two nights. Show him around your town. Plan something around your likes. Plan something around HIS likes.

Comedy clubs,
karaoke,
museums,
nickel beer night,
etc.

Most of all... relax. Do what you do, and have him join you in your life. Hopefully all goes well. Best of luck to you! (=

21 hours??? goddamn this guy must really love you or something. wow especially with the price of gas.. damn