Exactly!!! Five, you're young, listen to the fellas here, (their old
and seasoned, lol, don't tell 'em I said that) their pretty damn smart
though, that King wont lead you in the wrong direction, as for shadow,
well, lol, just kidding shadow, he know's what he's talkin about.

that is ture songbird i am. beats the hell out of me why i always find
the bad apples in the barrel. I'm seeing that i am better then that i
just dont know y all the bad ones are comin towards me.

Five, sweetie, I think that we have covered all of your relationship
issues, If you stay with her any longer you are going to get hurt more.

But that choice is yours alone.

fivespeed you deserve better then that. you don't need a beating
everytime something goes south. She sounds controlling and very abusive.
I wouldn't even go there. Get smart guy. I know it gonna hurt now but
it's better now then several thousand bucks and half your life later.

That is ture. Somtimes i wish i could switch brains with somone casue
somtimes i feel i make disisions based on impulse not lookin at the
whole picture. I have a prob of looking past things as i said before
when i should be like wtf u hit me. I was ready to pull over and leave
her ass on the side of the road as it is really hard to drive when u
have somone hittin u goin down the road at 60 and she was abusing me but
then id have her bro and numerous other people after me so that wouldnt
have been good.

well some poeple seem to be happy in abusive relationships oh well to
each his own

AWWWWW chuckee how sweet lol :) Wait a min! Did you say OLD LMAO

alot of people have the problem of looking at their own problems
differently than outsiders do

Well you did the right thing all though I would have pulled over and
dropped her ass because she was interfering with yuor driving and that
will get YOU a ticket my friend. Scew her brothers and the family. I
would have dropped her ass at the cop shop.

im finding it odd cause i seem to find the ones with a fuse lit at both
ends and its just a matter of time before they explode. Everything seems
to be goin good then they explode. Any suggestions on finding people
that are actually worth while?

chopperdan- u do have a pt...that wouldnt have been good thou if we got
pulled over most likly she would have ended up in a jail cell for the
night. There would have been a chance i would have been in there with
her.

fivespeed with all the problems you are having with this one girl all I
can say is say goood bye she is one problem after another. Sorry life is
not worth it to start with your 19. Move on and find someone worth
spending your time with or stay and suffer cause she will bring you even
more pain your way.

I think its over anyways her mom said never talk to me again for what
she did to me.

OK 5 I THINK YOU GOT ALL THE INFO YOU NEED NOW WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO
WITH IT IS UP TO YOU

thats ture i got to face facts and leave her just sucks i wasted all
that time.

five it is never wasted time it is time well spent learning what to look
for in the next one and avoid things like that down the road the way I
see it the things we learn are just stepping stones to the one we were
made to be with. Wel learn as we travel our path of life problem is what
do we retain as we go along the way!

fivespeed, A while back I received this email which says alot about
relationships. It's called "Let It Go", author unknown.

Hope this helps in letting go bad and unhealthy relationships in your
life.
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Let It Go

There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can
walk away from you:
let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into
staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to
see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you, let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The bible said that, they came out from us that it
might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of
us,no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it
just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know
when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying
to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you
something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift,
I believe in good-bye.
It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I
know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it
takes too much sweat I
don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't
belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need
to......

LET IT GO!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ......

LET IT GO!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and
see your worth.....

LET IT GO!

If someone has angered you .

LET IT GO!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and
revenge......

LET IT GO!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or
addiction......

LET IT GO!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets
your needs or talents....

LET IT GO!

If you have a bad attitude.......

LET IT GO!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel
better......

LET IT GO!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to
take you to a new level in Him....

LET IT GO!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken
relationship.......

LET IT GO!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even
try to help themselves....

LET IT GO!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed .........

LET IT GO!

If there is a particular situation that you are so
used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it,"
then you need to.....


LET IT GO!

Let the past be the past. Forget the former things.

LET IT GO!

Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then
LET IT GO!

"The Battle is the Lord's!"

that is a good pt im tryin to think if there isnt anything i havnt been
thru yet so far i have been with quite ones and wild ones...

wow venusrose thanks for that comment thats really got me thinking. If
everyone was able to do that no one in the world would ever have
relationship problems.

wow venusrose thanks for that comment thats really got me thinking. If
everyone was able to do that no one in the world would ever have
relationship problems.