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Topic: Not nice, but lacking.....
lilith401's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:07 PM
I see so many "Why don't women want a nice guy?" threads...

Ugh.

In my opinion, this has way more to do with assertiveness without being arrogant or aggressive. Not a "bad boy" or a "nice guy".

What do you think?

jtip1977's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:09 PM
I like bad girls...................







and turtles

stonesweetness's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:10 PM
it's funny you bring this topic up...I was just wondering the same thing.....I am attracted to the bad boy, and shy away from the *good* ones... lol

EtherealEmbers's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:10 PM
I think people should stop whining about wanting "nice" people. I don't know any nice person that likes a whiner.

DebbieJT's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:10 PM
Edited by DebbieJT on Tue 03/18/08 03:11 PM
i think ive said all i can on these nice/bad guy threads...its the individual that counts....and i get sick of hearing why dont you women like nice guys...blah blah blah laugh

DebbieJT's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:10 PM

I like bad girls...................







and turtles
boobies:tongue: laugh

no photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:11 PM
I think it has to do with looks and/or personality. Most men who call themselves "nice guys" are whiners who go on about women have walked all over them and they don't take care of their appearance. So then they blame women who go after men who either are blessed with good look, DO take care of themselves and/or have a winning personality. Women don't like whiners, at least I don't.

bad_girl's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:11 PM

I like bad girls...................







and turtles


(((((jt))))) I am a bad_girl:wink:

jtip1977's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:12 PM


I like bad girls...................







and turtles


(((((jt))))) I am a bad_girl:wink:


I know you are - and you wear such sexy thongsdevil

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:12 PM

i think ive said all i can on these nice/bad guy threads...its the individual that counts....and i get of hearing why dont you women like nice guys...blah blah blah laugh


Totally agree. I don't think good or bad or nice or laid back or any of those terms are appropriate for self-description.

Whiney is right! Learn some assertiveness, people!

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:12 PM
Don't be a shy guy!!!:smile:

bad_girl's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:12 PM
blushing blushing



I like bad girls...................







and turtles


(((((jt))))) I am a bad_girl:wink:


I know you are - and you wear such sexy thongsdevil

italianman30's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:13 PM
well i have ot say im a nice guy and single so i believe most want the bad boy image

Single_Rob's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:14 PM
but,but,but I like to whine ohwell

briancarr's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:15 PM
some people just want to lay in bed, and have what they want fall on thier face. Or they want it know, but dont want to do the work. They act like life is a 2hour movie. Sometimes you have to be like the turtle. Slow and steady. To many darn cry babies:cry: :cry: :cry: sad sad sad sad

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:16 PM

well i have ot say im a nice guy and single so i believe most want the bad boy image


I say you are wrong. JMO That belief is why you are single, I'm sure not the only reason... but still.

no photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:16 PM
Or here's a solution, if the so-called "nice guys" believe women want jerks, start being a jerk and see how that works out for you.

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:17 PM

Or here's a solution, if the so-called "nice guys" believe women want jerks, start being a jerk and see how that works out for you.


Fantastic idea!

DebbieJT's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:17 PM


well i have ot say im a nice guy and single so i believe most want the bad boy image


I say you are wrong. JMO That belief is why you are single, I'm sure not the only reason... but still.
see i knew we would get one lol

lilith401's photo
Tue 03/18/08 03:18 PM



well i have ot say im a nice guy and single so i believe most want the bad boy image


I say you are wrong. JMO That belief is why you are single, I'm sure not the only reason... but still.
see i knew we would get one lol


Shhh... reeling in here... laugh

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