If you met the right man or woman, would you give up your JustSayHi account? I didn’t think I would... but what if keeping it was hurting the one you profess to love? But on the other hand... what about the 'true' friends you have made along the way? *HEAVY SIGH*

I wouldn't. he would have to understand that I enjoy chatting to people but that I would show him respect as well (like changing my profile etc)

Oh I thought this was another Dr. Seuss post. I saw the would you/could you... lol

If my man asked me to stop flirting, I would... in a heartbeat, as long as he did, too. There's always phone calls if you're really friends!

i thought of this topic b4,thanks for putting it up....i would give it up.....MUST COMPLETE MISSION...

Here for friends, so no.

yeah tough one!!! but do what u feel u need to...Maybe u need to just deactivate for a while and build ur trust with ur partner. but without loosing ur friends on here, if u can find that balance kudos to u!!

this is one reason I choose ot be single so I dont have to deal with that situation

No,,, They or she is my friend,,,, I won't give that up,,, I would let them watch and see the bs that come's with the program.... I think they would understand after a bit....

No I have too many friends on here and he would have to understand that. Might slow down to get to know each other but no wouldn't leave, I have many many friends on here, some that have become an integral part of my life

Ok rose, would you keep adding to your friends list or leave it as it is? Thanks for your response.

i have met someone special, and he wouldnt ask me to give it up...however i am working on cutting back!!

Very wize,,,

I think it depends on what your definition of "the right man" is to you.

If I decided to be exclusive with a woman, I'm removing my profile because there's simply no need for it. Online dating equals about 8% of my social interactions.

If I'm just dating, then I'm dating other women too. So I won't be changing anything for someone I hardly know.

Oh good for you darling

Well we were to be exclusive... but things are kinda rocky. This could be some of the reason though. I just love this site and everyone on it. Wish I knew what to do.

I didn't realize you were asking for yourself, I thought you were asking a hypothetical question.

Things you should ask yourself...

* Is this guy a really jealous guy?
* Are you giving him reasons to be jealous?
* Are there men that are flirting with you whether or not you're reciprocating?
* Is he cutting you off from any other friends in your offline life?
* How possessive is he?
* How long have you been together?
* If you feel you've really met great friends and it's completely platonic, is there a way you can prove that he can trust you?
* Will you have to prove your faithfulness to him on a continual basis?

Tell you what, I think if he makes you delete your account, that's a warning sign. There is much more going on here than people "hooking up."

However I would change the status of you profile from single. JMHO

Good point, peccy.. having the status of "looking for a man for relationship" would kinda piss off any man with a girlfriend...

WOW,,, That is really good,,,I like that alot,,, I think she has her answer,,,,,

it would depend on how hard she kicked me in the testicles after catching me